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The same way one develops high self-esteem, in many cases, they believe the lies people tell them. Or, they can set expectations and obligation upon themselves (or believe that someone has such expectations), that are too high for them to meet. …

in How does somebody develope low self esteem? Comment by no-real-help June 2021

Nope. It's a simple choice ... and there are no rules for happiness, other than the ones you impose on yourself.

in Is happiness a privilege? Comment by no-real-help June 2021

Find your approval in yourself; you don't need Daddy's, or anyone elses, approval to be happy, successful or anything else. "Daddy" was just another guy, fate made him your father. Why is "Daddy's" approval more important to …

in How do I overcome daddy issues? Comment by no-real-help May 2021

There is nothing wrong with you ... other than you're trying to live up to expectations you believe others have of you ... you're fine, just the way you are. Honestly. The only expectations you have to live up to are your own. If people won't acc…

in Self esteem ideas please? Comment by no-real-help May 2021

For you, it's whatever you choose to make it. As long as she consents, is legal, and open-minded enough to indulge me, if that be the fetish I choose at the time, what business, or difference, is it? ... and what if playing that role is HER idea?…

in Isn't dressing up as a schoolgirl just pseudo-paedophillia? Comment by no-real-help May 2021