self esteem problems...help?
So i guess I kind of have big eyes & people comment on it all the time & it really bothers me. I can never tell if they mean it as a compliment when they say "Oh you have big eyes!" or if its an insult. It just really gets to me and im very self conscious. any tips on how to make your eyes smaller?
also i have other insecurities...does anyone know how to make you feel better about yourself? I hate feeling this way
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The sooner you learn this in life the better... (This isn't just some crappy cheesy thing to make u feel good about urself) ok so what u have to learn is that who cares what other people think.. Life is so short that it really doesn't matter. What friends you had or how you dressed won't Matter in 5 years. I really don't think I'm explaining this well but the main point Is that u should just be who u r and surround yourself with people who bring you up and make you happy and don't give two shits about the mean people in life cuz they will just bring u down also when people say u have big eyes just laugh and say yea I know don't feel insecure cuz everyone has something they hate about themselves.
Usually when somebody says that all you have big eyes that's a compliment honey so don't take it to heart and you know what I'm sure you have a lot of great Qualities about you such a help with what people t. Hell on 46 years old and my hair is damn near Short it as a Marines haircut and I don't like it but you know what who cares I'm just out for me to be happy and theres lots of things you can do in life to make you happy
I highly doubt there is a way to make your eyes smaller....
I know the feeling though. It's tough, and honestly, there isn't a cure. It's something you have to decide on your own. Are you going to live by the standards and the flawed perception of 'beauty'? Or are you going to glow and rise in your 'imperfections'? Show them you don't need their opinion. You won't change and conform to ways of our society. You are a beautiful human being. Don't let losers bring you down!
EVERYONE has insecurities and the cold hard truth is u have to get over it or do something about it and in ur case it's the way u were born so u can't change it... But some guys like big eyes!!