How do I confess love to a guy?
.. in a way that he'll love me too?
Okay, so I have a huge crush on this guy since last year (January 2012). He doesn't seem to notice me, and I think that he has never fallen in love before. He still thinks like a kid (based on his actions) (we're both 18 btw).
So, as time went by, our friendship somehow developed, though it is not as good as I wished it to be. Well, because we haven't talked about anything aside from academics, and we only say hi and smile to each other every time we pass each other.
However, there was this one incident last December, where we both attended a party. I got hella drunk, and he was the on who took care of me. He even took me home that night. That day, I realized that I really love him.
So I made a move last February 14. I gave him a box of cupcakes, a stuffed toy, and a letter where I poured my heart out. Though I didn't tell him who I am. And my other friend told me that he was wondering who gave him the presents that day.
So now, I would like to confess to him. I would like to tell him that I was the one who gave him those gifts. I am the one who loves him truly.
But how will I do this? I want it to be somehow sweet. PLease also take into consideration that we're not that close to each other, so if I tell him, he might feel awkward around me and not talk to me anymore?
Please help me. I really really do love him.
Oh, one more thing, I'm a guy, I am bisexual, and I haven't told him that either And I think he isn't open to these things (I can see that he's somehow homophobic). In fact, no one knows I'm bi, except for my two best friends.
This is the first time I felt this way towards the same sex. I really love him.
Please help me?
PS: Sorry for my bad English
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taking care of wasted buddy is one of the pillars of bro code, and I really wish you guys can end up happily ever after... However, the reality sucks because some guys cannot handle anything homosexual. Therefore, it is very likely that your love proposal toward him may go wrong.
It really comes down to if you want to risk what you have at the moment or do you want to go a bit farther. Looking at the fact that you can tell he's somehow homophobic hints that he may not tolerate homosexuality very well.
I would say most logical decision would be just be best friend with him at the moment. However, when you are blinded by love, it is hard to tell the most logical decision. My question to you is "do you want to risk what you have for very slim chance that he might have affection toward you?"
In reality, this is has very slim chance because it is after all homosexuality issue. Not everybody has open mind.
this is a really nice story but to be honest unless you you know he is gay / bi or you don't mind risking your reputation for that which may not go to plan then i guess just follow your heart and all that chessy crap .
for example there is a guy that i used to like because i thought all these signs meant that he liked me long story short he used to be my best friend.
so overall you like him or you don't enough to risk school reputation