Do guys EVER TEST girls?
Is it true that a guy will say something random (sex joke/sexual comment) to see how a girl will react and be able to tell what type of person she is by the way she reacted to what was said?I had a guy say something sexual to me and when I objected to it, he called me "uptight" *rolls eyes*
OH...AND WHY DO THEY DO IT?
Update:COMPATIBILITY sex wise? Now I am REALLY confused.
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Yes -- they do it because they can get by with it. They do it to be rude and crude and see if they can rattle the girl's cage. Some do it to test if they can get sex from her, others just do it to be mean.
Of course guys TEST girls. The ultimate goal is to get into a girls pants. The best way to go about this is to have the proper information. For example: Does she flirt...if yes proceed to step 2. and so forth. It's all a series of test. They are graded pass/fail. A pass means the game will continue and fail means - he will move on.
Once he finds a girl that turns the tables on him or he just doesn't feel like testing......well, he usually ends up marrying her.
men are human. if girls do it, chances are guys do it too-and some girls do this. Most don't do it consciously because that[s absolutely insane but many PEOPLE (not just guys) will judge you based on your reactions to things they say to you. This is a normal social interaction.
People saying things for THE SOLE PURPOSE of "testing" you is not normal and certainly doesn't happen often.
Also I'm going to make a judgment call and say he was going to tell that joke/comment anyway and happened to judge you because this is what people do naturally.
Ok so i ask my husband who ustu b quite loose back in his day and he said if u start cracking sexual jokes around a girl and if she laughs and thinks its funny he would go a little bit further, then if he felt the girl was not leaveing him or slapping his face then he would put the make on her.
Yes they do
They are testing you out
That's why he said you were uptight
Good for you
I bet he never he never bothered you again ?
Why do they do it? to see if your self esteem is low enough that they can get an easy lay.
When you rejected him he had to make it about you having an issue...that way there was something wrong with you, and therefore saving face coz you rejected him.
No, they just want to get some.
yes we do, we want to make sure we have compatibility, and yes most fail.
they do it. so they can see how much of freak you are.