Do you think I am a special case??!!!?
I am 19 years old woman;)...and I don't feel like I like any Guy, I don't even feel interested I even feel like I will throw up when some Guys are trying to become nearer to me so disgusted ...I am not lesbian...I have never fall in love, I even think that all guys are like each others!!
Update:I have friends of both sex, I am not afraid of men:)
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Special, but not in a negative way. I remember that I wasn't interested in guys all that much because I was so focused on my studies. I had a good relationship with my dad and I felt secure with myself. If a really nice guy asked me out, I'd go out, but it wasn't a part of my life that I was desperate to fill and maybe you are the same way. There's nothing wrong with that, unless it is making you totally anti-social. There are so many factors that could be making you feel this way toward guys: sexually assaulted, molested as a child, badly hurt by boys you've had interest in the past, feeling unworthy, feeling they don't deserve you, maybe you are only seeing the negative characteristics in men and are stereotyping them. You just haven't met the right guy yet. It must be understood that no person is perfect, not one woman, not one man. If you can see beyond that, then that helps not just for a bf/gf relationship, but any kind of relationship. We all need to get along, especially in the work place and if you think that all guys are alike, they aren't. Maybe you need to go to different places to meet different type of men. If you just aren't interested then, don't be bothered by it, but if you should feel lonely and need some companionship from a man, please don't be so quick to judge them. Life was not meant to be lived alone. You're still so young. I didn't fall in love until I was 21yrs old. I think you just have strong values and you know what you are looking for. It will come. There's no rush and there's nothing wrong with you. Maybe you just have a lot of self respect for yourself and you are just meeting other young guys who are looking for "easy" girls, which honestly disgust me as well. Keep your chin up, self respect intact and you will come to find that for every woman, there is a man.
Ok, so if you know for a fact you're not heterosexual, or homosexual, or bisexual.....maybe you're just Asexual. Someone not having an attraction to ANYONE and being disgusted with the opposite sex coming nearer to them is kind of a special case in my opinion. Maybe something happened with a guy when you were younger?
Maybe you should explore more? :P See if you're a lesbian. Being lonely your entire life might suck. At least I think so. Unless you're a loner. Then, well, it's all G.
Umm well yes I guess you would be consider a special case. I don't know why you think all guys are the same. Just like all girls aren't the same, just like all snow flakes aren't the same. They are all special in their own way. Sure 95% of all guys are going to be jerks in one way or the other, but you shouldn't put up a wall against every guy. You'll end up alone if you don't let anyone in, guy or girl. My friend who is 21 and is a girl, never was successful with relationship, she is ok looking and there been guys whom asked her out. But she set up a wall against everyone, she has such impossible standards that no one can meet. She doesn't give anyone a chance whom doesn't meet those standards. One of which is based on their religious beliefs. Anyways she shut people out and I can tell she is lonely inside even if she says she isn't. Even her mom has told her she will end up being alone if she doesn't change... maybe she is waiting for the perfect guy.... Idk but give people a chance, everyone deserves one.
You sound scared of men. Maybe you should talk to a counselor or someone and try to find out why. No one on here is going to know why you feel that way, only you can answer that question. Is it possible that you were a victim of abuse or witness to an abusive situation?
No, you're fine, babe...
It's your brain keeping you from making mistakes (like sex with the wrong guy/being play'd/etc.), && wasting time on guys who are undeserving.
It's a defense mechanism.
When you meet the right guy, this will change. You'll feel it. Promise.
I'm 17 and I've not been interested in anyone since a few years ago. I find it very difficult to like someone
I feel that way about ALL people sometimes... Ha but even though I feel like that about guys I still give them a chance. One could surprise you.
All guys aren't like each other. It's amusing when girls say that. You just haven't found the guy that touches your heart the right way. Once they do, you'll know it.
It just means that you cannot trust people in general, which means you can't trust males, which means you certainly cannot like males, which means you are disgusted by males, which means you are not a special case.
you should visit a Dr. ....or maybe u've had some bad history with guys...or ur family or parents have...idk
not all guys are the same....trust me ...some are very different...and someday u will find the one thats perfect for you...not all people are the same .