islam love marriage, parents dissaproval?
my muslim friend is in love with this iraqi man. he is 30 years old. his family are very strict muslims and dissaprove of her because she doesnt cover and also she does not have much knowledge of islam and because she has done a lot of unislamic things. she did not grow up with proper islamic knowledge. her parents dissaprove of him as well. however, her parents are not practising muslims and do not cover. she wants to start covering and learn more about her religion because she now fears Allah almighty. she wants to become a better person. she and the man love each other very much. he is very religious. she is hoping that by marrying him she will become a better musilm. please help. are they allowed to marry even though both of their parents dissaprove. she is albanian and he is iraqi. they refuse to marry anyone else. please only serious, religious answers. she told me her parents would kill her if she married him. i dont know if she meant it literally though. his family lives in iraq. he lives in australia. he does not live with his parents. so if they get married they would be living here. my question is are they allowed to marry according to islam, despite the dissaporval of the parents from both parties?
Update:when i say kill i really mean disown. she lives in australia so i doubt that they would kill her
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it is wajib to have wali , obligatory to have approval of her representative , Muslim are those who submit themselves to the will of Allah ,for more info mail me on motalib310 @rocketmail.com, other wise they must wait till the approval of their parents , remember you cant raise your voice upon your parents ,this is the Quranic verse , in chapter 33 verse 36 ,it is not fitting 4 a believer ,man or woman ,when a matter has been decided by Allah and his Messenger to have any option about their decision. who ever disobey Allah and his Apostle , he has indeed gone in a plain error ,hope you get the answer ,thanks for your question
I'm more concerned for the girl. You say that her parents aren't very religious, yet the girl is scared they will kill her is she marries this man? That is just frightening to say the least. The young man is from a totally different way of life again, but either way it's not looking good.
I don't even know what to say, only that the girl will suffer the most whichever path she chooses.
yes the can but she has to convert to islam and theres is no rule for parents dissaproval in this religion i dont know exactly about iraq anyway just tell her if she turns to islam theres no way back if she tries to turn her back on islam according to islamic rules she must die
so make her read this ( http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Apostasy_in_Islam ) and my personal opinion is she tells him atleast to leave his country and go to hers because believe me i live in iran it also has an islamic regime and its hell and i mean it... so if he loves her he should move for her because even if she wants to be a muslim thats not a place to live (anyway personally i hate islam but dont judge me)
A love-marriage is on no account discouraged in Islam and particular you could date, as long as you at the instant are not on my own including your boyfriend. somebody might desire to be chapperoning the the two considered one of you.
Muhammad, the Muslim Prophet, the religion of Islam, was a pedophile and in general a disgusting man.
The people of the Muslim religion get their ways of life from their prophet. Examples of his disgustiness is as follows (as documented in the Hadith, which is a legally bound book in Islam):
He married a girl of age 6, and had vaginal sex with her when she was 9. What happened for the 3 years in between is unknown, but speculated to be anal and oral sex.
He requested two men to lick his anus. When the did, one of the men decided to bite. Muhammad then sent the two men down to the nearby village with the instruction of licking everyones anus.
There are many more atrocities documented by the Hadith.