Why do girls date stupid disrespectful guys?
Well, i just wanted to ask anyone out there why girls date popular jerks?! IDK any other term but i want to know this, because this one girl i used to really really like, liked me! even though i wasnt popular, and she was. but now she doesnt... and it sux... and i dont understand why girls date popular guys cuz most of em are stupid and disrespectful! if i won her back i would treat her like a freaking princess! but those stupid popular kids are idiots and date them for like what, a few days to weeks? All i hear is "oh, i dont want a long relationship" well then why date? it pisses me off and i wanna know from u girls out there why do you date stupid guys like them?
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A lot of them are affraid of real love.
You have to remember girls in high school typically have very low self-esteem. When they date a "popular" guy, the girl feels more confident about herself. She thinks others will think that she is something special because a hot, popular guy wants her. This is how the game goes, buddy. Typically, women don't see how important a guy is on the inside until they start a family and see that their hot boyfriend is a jerk and only thinks about himself. They get a divorce and the woman seeks a man who will treat her right rather than going for looks. Of course this is a generalization. Just move on with your life and try to focus on other girls. Try to get a girl who is simple looking, smart and fit. These type of girls really evolve over time to be winners!
Well it makes the girl feel special. Not because they treat them right but because there popular. If there bf is popular then they become popular by dating them. Its stupid yea, but..I guess some people like being treated bad for the price of popularity. Although I refuse to date a guy who treats me wrong.
In high school you are stuck in a situation where being popular is everything. You know this. What it means is she wants to be popular and it doesn't matter what she has to endure to get that. Thankfully you will not be in that situation forever. When you get out you can decide what YOU want your life to be. College is better trust me.
i dont date guys like that but i know some who do. they date them because they want to be like im dating the hottest most popular guy!!!! and to tell u the truth, most popular guys are HOTT so if ur not hot then i suggest u make urself look good
because all girls care about these days is being in, and popular, and feeling special or important, so they date these popular preppy jerks that are on the football team, and hang with all the rude kids.
idk that is one of the most annoying things to me. how can u even be with a person if they really dont like or respect u. that is one of the key things in a relationship and somthing to look for in a guy. the guy a girl shouldd date is someone that actually treats her like a decent human being unlike 3/4 of the high school boy population.
I'm sure you'll find someone! Lately i think there's been a lotta interracial relationships, so its possible to for u to get together with an asian girl! You sound like an ideal guy most of my Asian friends like - especially the fact that u like asian music will be a really big turn on xD u sound cool! don't worry u'll be fine!
well most girls like to be popular and have attention, so dating a popular jerk is sometimes the only way. you gotta win her over.
i know i dont like guys like that. i like sweet sensitive guys, but i have no idea why girls do it, maybe they like the bad boys?