What do you consider "fat"?
Just curious.. I've always been bigger, but I think I'm very pretty. I've dated very attractive people, and haven't really been made fun of for my weight since like jr. high. I'm just wondering, Guys, is Weight REALLY a big issue for you? If so, what do you consider too fat? Do men secretly harbor fat girl fettishes? lol
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i think men often confuse attractiveness with confidence-if that makes sense, you and i have always been bigger, but i guess our confidence levels are pretty high, that's why we have great luck with men....men love confidence and often its the skinny women that have it not bigger women
therefore men associate skinniness with confidence and confidence with sexiness, skinniness=confidence
which is not true, but it explains why so many go straight for the skinny women uh?
some men assume bigger women don't like themselves, or aren't sexual at all, (again not true) but don't try telling them that, they want a girl that "takes care of themselves" (i know you've heard that!)
men make weight a big issue but it really isn't it's their own misconcivied notions....:)
Weight is not really a big issue for me. I'm not really attracted to exceptionally heavy females, but then again I dont care for exceptionally thin either. Do men secretly harbor fat girl fettishes; an honest answer might surprise you.
over 140 lbs is probably pushing it. I don't have any of those fetishes
u know wat the good part is??? u can't work out to lose the weight