how do u cope.....?
i just recently lost my friend in a house fire while she was sleepin n her two little sisters we were close n i can't handle it what are some things i can do... so i don't go crazy im always with friends... i remember all the happy times i just can't handle it...
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this may sound cliche.. but get counselling... thats really tramatic.. and you might be depressed from the lose of your friend... the wanting to give up, and the depression mixed together are the perfect recipe for suicide.. get help... or tell somebody... but dont hold it in... maybe you need time to yourself to grieve in your own way.. maybe visit the house.. or go to her grave and talk to her.. spend time with her family... there are many things... but if you become to the point that you just dont care.. that you dont want to live... tell somebody.. and ask for help..
awww im soo sorry...one of my friends died somewhat like that...and to tell you the truth if you were so close ...you will probably never get over it....if u start going to these classes where otehr people have lost a friend the same way..it will really help u..trust me...it helped me..therapy....and also counsaling will too..most important you should still cry every once in a while about it cause u shouldnt forget a friend lik that....and crying does make u remember...
The best way to cope with something awful is to do something positive so that same thing doesnt happen to someone else. You could do fundraising for smoke alarms for needy people, you could contact the fire department and see if they have some suggestions. you need to direct your sorrow into a different path.
There is nothing anyone can tell you to help you, my sister died in Dec. and I have no idea what I do half the time. I still cry myself to sleep, when I can sleep. I think of all the good times. We were very very close. my sister was my best friend, my baby sister, she meant very much to me.
Sorry for your loss, hope you find a way to deal with it. death happens everyday, and still everyone takes it very hard.
just live on.. make those happy thoughts you have together as your source of strength. You see, those happy times you had together is ironic. it makes you sad.. anyway. just live on.