Umm Ideas PLEASE!?
Well Im to young for love ive heard it before, but i need help.
Ive heard by many many people tha tmy boyfriend is cheating on me, he keeps no contact with me and im scared.
Theres an issue where i like this other guy but im not sure if he likes me back.
What do i do?
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ask your boyfriend "hey, what's up? i've heard some nasty rumors and i need to know if they're true. because seriously, if they are, then we need to talk". so just start it out with that. then if he says that they're true, you can just dump him. and if he says no, they're not true, then you guys should talk about why the rumors are spreading. and if he says he's not, and you think he's lying, then try to get some backup info. and tell him that you don't feel like you can trust him with all the bad things ppl are saying about him. good luck, whoever you are.
More info would be nice. How old are you? But regardless of age, a guy who 1) IS cheating on you and 2) doesn't keep in contact is NOT someone you want to be around anyway, regardless of whether or not he's cheating on you. You are going down the wrong path here... You need to be comfortable ALONE, otherwise you will compromise your self-worth by being with someone who cheats on you and pays no attention to you. So, better to be alone than with losers. That needs to be your mantra for now. Just keep repeating that to yourself again and again.
Who cares about this "other guy" for the purposes of your question. Dump the "boyfriend" and pursue other things/people (even if its not this "other guy"). Good luck and accept nothing less than the care, love and affection of someone who want to be with you and only you.
Will love at a young age last ? Who knows ? But you can be in love at any age. You write you have heard he is cheating. Do you know if he is ? If he keeps no contact with you I wouldn't call him a boyfriend. As for the other guy, ask him to hang out....the worst thing that will happen is he says "no". It might be a little embarrassing, but no one ever died from the word no.
well first of all in a relationship stability is the first thing...you don't feel like he is even there. you need someone who want to call you and keep contact. dump his *** and get a new boy. hang with the girls. here will be sooooooooo many more boys down the road....and I am sure you will get your heart broken much worse. good luck
well just bc ppl are telling u that he's cheating on you they might not know the whole story... and they might be wrong. and u dnt want to accuse him of cheating on u wen he's really not rite? i think u need to break up with him anyway bc if u raelly did love him then u wouldn't be liking another guy... there's just no connection between you and that other guy anymore... that's wat i think. so break up with ur bf and try to get closer to the other guy...
Go with who keeps contact with you. It's the LEAST they can do.
talk to your guy. ask him whats going on.