How do I cancel this date now?
I've been kind of talking to my new neighbor for a month now. He asked me to go to the movies tomorrow night and I said yes. Then tonight we decided to meet up and have a bonfire. It was the first time really meeting him and talking to him.. And I guess I can say I'm not all that interested. The whole time he talked about his ex, not to mention he talks so much that I could barely put a word in. I got the notion from him that he's pretty racist, which I don't like, and we're just complete opposites. I found it very hard to sit with him for an hour. So now I really want to cancel this movie date with him tomorrow night but I don't want to make it obvious that the reason is because of tonight. I feel so bad because he is a nice guy, I just am not interested and I feel that if I go it'll be leading him on more. What do I do and what should I say?
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Ok, you should be very stright foward about it. DO NOTbeat around the bush, and DO NOT try to sugar coat it. cause it will eaither piss him off a whole lot or he will start crying. most likely the anger though. Take some time write out what you have to say them say it. DO NOT dump with a call/txt/ or letter. Got it, str8 up. And preferably with a friend. Just in case.