A guy's perspective please...?
I guess I shoulda mentioned that he didn't want me to have any guy friends, but he said that it was different for him to be friends with girls. Crazy huh? And when I did go out, he never wanted me wearing skirts or dresses.
Now I guess I should talk about the feelings part. I know he cared because when we had our first big fight he said he hadn't slept all night cuz he was thining about me, he said he was sorry and didn't wanna lose me. Like that's the kinda stuff he said. And when we were together, he was never afraid to show that he was my boyfriend.
Any answer is appreciate, but a guy's perspective would be great.
Update:guys read my question before this.
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my cousin has been dating this type for the past 5 years.
get. OUT. NOW!
i'm sorry but it's true. he now beats her because he thinks he OWNS her. she lost all her friends, she can't look too pretty, she can't talk to any guy - that includes our cousins... AND ME (im a girl).
if she takes me out for ice cream he'll get MASSIVELY angry. and i know he threatened her so she won't leave him.
this is what it is : he thinks he OWNS you because you're his. so he wants you to remain his Perfect Girlfriend (aka a robot) as opposed to enjoying YOU as yourself.
they'll always apologize because they want you to keep coming back to him.
but it's your life and you do what you want. but be warned!
we always deserve the best and we should get to do things we like as well.
It sounds to me like he's a jealous type. People like that can be very destructive both in a relationship and afterwards. I'd find out just how jealous he is and why. If you can resolve the problem then you'll be fine - because he does seem to care for you, but if you cannot find a way to stop him acting like that, then I'd seriously consider finding a way out of that relationship, it could lead to a lot of trouble and a lot of heartbreak.
uve got an amazing boyfriend who thinks ur the world to him(Y)
.... but its a bit crazy how hes so overprotective he doesnt want u to wear skirts or dresses or have any guy friends. just talk to him about it. tell him not to worry that hes the only one on ur mind and any other guys relationship are just friends, and why would it be wrong to wear skirts or dresses if he could protect you?(; talk to him about that.
but congratulations, ur boyfriend is amazing and cares about you sooo so much
hope this helped, good luck!
A little possessive though, definitely not the type of guy a girl should be with. You're going to end up hating him.
He is just dosent want u to leve him and other guys to go after u