Serious problem....?
My and my boyfriend have been together for about six months and today we had an argument literally over nothing. I kept agging this argument on and he said some really hurtful things and I finally left. About two hours later I called to apologize for keeping the argument going when I should have just walked away and he said that he loved me and didn't mean the things he said and that he wasn't going anywhere. Then I called him a few hours later to let him know that I was going to sleep and everything seamed fine. Now I feel that maybe he agreed to making up just to spare my feelings, am I being paranoid or should I have something to worry about?
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I wouldnt worry about it...he knows the fight was stupid and I am sure he got over it_
Would it be a problem even if he was just trying to appease you by telling you that he was sorry. You started off by saying that you argued about nothing, and instead of him letting it continue he took into control and he did what he knew he should/ had to at the given time. Most of the time when someone, like myself and you, is agging on an arguement even when we don't always know what we are arguing about, we are only looking for that other person to solve it. HE saw that you were upset, and even though he may not have fully understood or even agreed with what you were saying, he cares enough about you to take the blame and appologize. So instead of worrying I think you should be thankful that you ahve found someone like this. Because in all honesty what is important is that he appologized for you being hurt and for his part in it... he did it for you.
This is where the relationship starts to take on a whol;e new dimension: effort. Yes, I'd say you're being paranoid. But a big part of successful relationships is knowing when to listen to your head and when to listen with your heart. The right ideas aren't always going to feel good, and the right feelings aren't always going to make sense. That's why you commit to it, so that you can say to yourselves and each other that while you may not always do the right thing, you promise to always try and do everything you do for the right reason. Good luck and stick with it. It gets easier once you get used to it.
Well I think he should have called you to apologize but thats besides the point. If you really think he did it just to keep from hurting you see how he acts for the next week or so and see what happens if he acts distant then you may wanna think about calling it quites and I mean you shouldn't be having arguments that bad yet.
well as you say yall were in a argument so always in arguments you say stuff dat you dont really mean but i could see if yall didnt make up and he wasnt tryna hear anything you was sayin but yall made up so no you shouldnt have nuthin to worry bout but hit me up as best advice person or whatever i need some points maine
dont be worried... Im sure he still loves you just the same. me and my boyfriend fight every other day over nothing.. and we're both really happy and love each other.
all couples fight
don't worry about it, if you guys truly love eachother you will keep on goin
i think its fine, ur not being paraniod, but honeslty, dont worry, and dont over analyze things./
goodluck =D