My dads a sex addict!!?
Im 13, i have known it for awhile, yet for some reason im mad at him for it. i dont know y, he always looks at women like around me and my mom. my mom nos but for some reason it doesent seem 2 bother her. I dont feel comtroble around him, and i want 2, wen i where a mabey low cut top, or a bikini like right about 2 go 2 the pool \ he looks at me sexualy, and hes my dad! I hate it i get guys looking at me at skool & in public and i dont need it at home! When im watching a show with a pretty girl on it he seems more in2 it than a show with just regualr ppl... its annyoin and im pretty feminist. One time i slept in my parents room and in the moring he was talkin about how he wants 2 have sex, and my moms like mhmm, yeah suure. I feel sry for her. I dont think i should thow. He used 2 do second life and i caught him havein cyber sex and crap like that, he saw that i saw and like had this hude uncomtrable talk about how hes sry. Wen i was lil (like 6-9) i was scared he was goin 2 rape me!
Update:Is bein a sexaddict normal
im scared im goin 2 have it and iv nevr had sex iv madeout and stuff but not that extreme.. im scared honestly and aprently hes a recoverin alcoholic!
wat do sex addicts do 2 make them sex addicts? besides havein sex duhh
Update 3:lolz yeahh sometimes he try 2 flippin hug me and im like ehh yeahh hes a really good guy just that every1 has flaws i think hes harmless, ust has some flaws
Update 5:but i cant help bein a lil uncomtroble or scared...
Comments
this is a big thing, and it's good that you are aware. You need to first talk to your mother, tell her how you feel. then comes the tuff part...talking your dad. It has to be done, because he may not be aware. It may be hard, but you'll feel good after you talk to him.
thats gross.. i'm sorry you have to deal with that. tell him that it makes you uncomfortable. or tell you mother. and maybe try to not wear revealing clothes around him as much as possible.. maybe you should talk to a school counciler or something. becuse the way that it sounds you may still someday have to worry about him trying something with you..
i you really do need to get someone on the outside to help you before he hurts you..
personally I don't believe a word of what you said
this is really sad. you need to stay away from your dad.
http://www.secondlife.com/