Does love come naturally?
Im 17 and never had a boyfriend ,havent even been kissed yet.I feel a little weird being one of the few people in my class who havent had a relationship yet but deep down i feel like im doing the right thing not to get involved with anyone now and to focus on my education instead(i may sound boring).I am not unnatractive as i have been asked out before i just dont want to be one of thes sluts, and besides i want to meet someone special who i will actually like.People dont believe me that i havent gone out with anyone yet as they tell me im really 'hot' .I dont really have a lot of guy firends and dont really talk to them that much.I just have fun with my friends but i cannot stop obsessing about finding love. I feel like love is the thing that will bring me true happiness and im afraid of being single forever, as nearly everyone has a boyfriend and talk to guys all the time.Maybe its the way ive been raised. i have quite hign standards when it comes to guys but im not uptight or anything.I just wonder if true love really exists and if it happens to everyone?
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i don't think it comes naturally...you have to go for it and talk if they don't talk to you
"Guys nowadays are such jerks, best care concerning the number of ladies they ranking at a get together and it makes me surprise if theres any respectable guys out there." i stopped there because that's entirely no longer genuine. Appear round, there are a lot of decent guys on this planet that you simply normally haven't given a 2d proposal. Have not you heard all of the quality guys moaning that women only go for jerks? "Do you could have act 'wellknown' to galvanize a man???", No, that stops being an hassle after you reach the age of 15. Having a personality and being particularly appealing is all you rather want fairly. Infact, being all widespread and that can be somewhat intimidating to guys as they think they are not just right sufficient seeing that of some weird mentality we've. "i've high necessities", I don't know what your actual requisites are so this is difficult to guage but this would be an drawback. If you need them to be the proper top, proper hair, correct clothes, all of the correct interests etc. Then you're being too picky. There's nothing improper with having standards in any respect but in case you are too choosy then count on to be ready a bit of longer, no-one is perfect on the finish of the day. "So my query is does love and relationships come naturally as you grow old?", if you go to school then you'll meet many new men and women who're looking for a relationship and so you'll to find that you are going to probably turn out to be in a relationship around that time. Exceptional of good fortune! I am sorry if I sound harsh every now and then however in distinctive areas I feel you are flawed and that i think it is great to simply let you know.