Am I just paranoid?
I get mad at my boyfriend because he has girls as his best friends on snapchat and he follows like 4,000 girls and nasty accounts on instagram and I always suspect he's talking to other girls in bad ways. I know he loves me but I'm just so paranoid and I'm losing my trust and I don't know why
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This situation happened to me and I talked to my boyfriend about it and he understood and told me he was glad I brought up what was bothering me so he could help. The relationship has gotten a lot better since then but my boyfriend is extremely understanding also and I am lucky in that aspect but not all guys will be like that, some may just think you're being over-dramatic because I was worried about the same thing. Try talking to him about it but dont make it too obvious at first, see how he reacts. Good luck.
this on line stuff is tricky, but I say if your partner loves and respects you he would not do anything to hurt you or make you feel uncomfortable. of course this is within reason. as long as you're not some overly jealous control freak, then I think it's time for him to knock off the on line shenanigans (IF he is actually communicating with this girls). I know some think it's just "Harmless" but once your mind starts to go there, then the body follows. You get me? If he starts to allow himself to flirt and be turned on by talking with girls on line then taking it to the next level isn't far behind. Talk to him and feel him out for his reaction.