Do i deserve a punishment?
This week I hid my report card lied to my parents and I was so rude. They porvide for me and I was so rude I ever swore in their faces I said shut the f*** up. I feel really guilty if I were your child wat would you do btw I'm 13
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Absolutely! Lying, hiding, disrespect..... your behavior was absolutely outrageous. If you were my child, not only would you have gotten a serious spanking (I don't care if you are 13); you would be visiting the soup kitchen for some volunteer work (because obviously, you think the world revolves around you) and grounded until your next report card.
You need to understand that while you may view yourself as a young-adult, your behavior indicates a bratty, self-entitled child. MTV glamorizes treating your parents, teachers and authority figures like crap... you may feel like an adult by swearing and getting in your parent's faces, but in the REAL world, compassion, honesty and integrity are what make you an adult. Trust is VERY hard to rebuild. In this world, your word is who you are and all that you have. How can anyone trust you if you're words are lies and your attitude is selfish?
You need to re-evaluate who you view as your role models and re-evaluate just who you want to be. If you want to be a trashy, pregnant, idiot by 14, then by all means- continue to lie, disrespect and treat your family like garbage. But if you have more respect for yourself and your parents, then you need to apologize for your behavior- and mean it.
Being "cool" doesn't mean treating others like ****, especially your parents. Because when middle school and high school are over... and all the friends you thought were so cool, are gone... your PARENTS are going to be the ones who are TRULY there for you. Trust me- I speak from experience.
I'm glad that you feel guilty because I am confident you will never ever want the child you love and care for day in and day out to speak that way to you.
I think what I would do is talk to your parents and tell them how sorry you are. Explain to them why you hid your report card - I'm guessing it's because the grades weren't good and you were afraid of their reaction. Then ask them to help you get the help you need to bring your grades up and do whatever it takes to work hard and bring them up.
A heart felt apology and signs of repentance and change in your behavior is what I would be looking at as a parent rather than "punishment".
LOL, I'd go see a shrink about my own BAD PARENTING and try undoing the parental damages I've done so far and then HELP you from now on.
yup, why lie? grow up please... tell them the truth and accept the consequences like a man.
if you lie the fear lives in you, but if you tell the truth you face the fear... well I was as stupid as you when i was your age so i wouldn't blame but I never did swear to my parents... that is where you cross the line. so please be a decent human being and respect your mom and dad.
Well you should be punisjed becauuse you cant talk back to your parents like that they didn't raise you to do that.