how do you trust a partner who betrayed you?

without admitting/knowing you found out, especially when nothing goes spoken?

Comments

  • You can't.

  • Not sure if you will ever fully trust your partner again. But if you want to stay in the relationship, the first step you have to take is to talk about it. After you talk then you will get a better idea weather or not you can put it behind you and move on. But I knowing this first hand, it is easy to forgive especially when you love someone and you can tell yourself and your partner that you can forget as well. Little things will always be in the back of your head. Ex: if your partner is even a little late coming home from work (even know it is probably innocent) you'll still find yourself wondering if they are telling you the truth or not. You put your trust in someone and they have let you down. That is just part of the consequences that your partner may have to live with and unfortionatly if you do stay you have to suffer that as well. Good luck to you

  • Good relationships are based in trust and honesty. You need to have a talk with your partner and clear the air. Both of you need to be honest with each other. If both of you are committed to this relationship, then your partner may earn trust over time. It takes a long time to rebuild this kind of trust. Good luck!

  • You need to get it out in the open, give yourself a chance to air out your feelings and heal (if that's possible). It's not healthy to keep this to yourself cause you'll never be able to move forward.

  • i don't think that you can resolve anything if you don't confront then go through a process on the way to healing and eventually trust-

    good luck

  • Why would you want to?

    You know your partner has done something, but you don't want any confrontation?

    You'll just have to lie down and take it then.

  • Counseling and a lot of time and patience. There will be no healing without talking about it.

  • I personally couldn't. If someone cheats me and I find out that someone will be gone.

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