Girl is perfect how to escape?
This close friend(girl) called me at 1AM to ask what u thought of guy she likes. I ended up saying how do you pick all the guys over me? She said it would be weird to kiss me. I asked how did i ever get put in that catgory??? She said a long time ago. I am suppose to hang later today and take class togethor in a month, how can i escape and what to do to have best posibilitly??? I want a girl that i can be best friends and more with!!! Recently she said i have mice booty and look diffrent in goodway(kept saying why u look so diffrent lol)
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A close friend would not call you at 1 a.m. when a few billions of people all over the world were sound asleep. She should do that only in the event of an emergency or when she had something urgent to discuss. It turned out that it was a trivial chat.
What she did shows her inconsideration and immaturity. The whole conversation was so frivolous that it did not warrant a call at the pre-dawn hour. How can you escape from her when she can ring you up whenever she likes?
It is not escape that you really seek. You want her to be closer than a best friend. It is a deep emotional or physical attachment that you desire. If this cannot happen, you want to avoid her. It is tantamount to issuing an ultimatum. Isn't this a selfish, demanding attitude?
How can two persons call themselves close friends when the friendship lacks understanding, tolerance and honesty? The bedrock of friendship is not even established; it is devoid of the give-and-take gesture, open-mindedness and goodwill. You only want to demand something she cannot give.
You can hang out with her as a friend. Don't expect anything romantic or amorous to follow. Exchange ideas, share mutual interests and strengthen bonds. Learn to cultivate values such as loyalty, frankness and trust. Without such values in friendship, you cannot expect it to develop further.
You will need more than a month or classes to be familiar with her likes and dislikes, opinions and interests. A well-connected mental wavelength has to be established. If things don't go according to your predetermined plans, you can choose to avoid her, and it only proves that you are not a true friend. Both are childish and any development of mature, strong relations looks remote. You yourself have a great deal to learn about friendship long before you even think of love. The present relationship is fragile and unsteady; both of you have to lay a strong foundation.
Date another girl, tongue that girl in front of the girl you like. Girls get very jealous very easy. Hope this helps.
Just ask her if shes ready to give it up and get it over with...
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