Is my mum a fair parent? Why do I feel guilty?
So my mum always makes me feel guilty, i mean i'm a teenager of course sometimes i can be a little moody or not want to talk to all the time, but i swear, she has that thing where you have two personalities. Heres an example that happened last night...
I was getting ready for Halloween (we celebrated last night at a friends house as we're at school tomorrow) and i'd previously asked her if she'd do my makeup because im crap at applying makeup and dont usually wear it. She shouted upstairs 'Are you ready for me?' laughing, and i said 'Do your worst!' joking, she started putting my eye makeup on really really really heavily, and to a big point at the end so it looked a bit silly, i said 'just not..too much mum' and she laughed and said okay and took a bit off. Then she did some more, and it looked really slutty, (blue eyeshadow and stuff, not halloween'y at all) so i said, 'if i dont like it at the end can i take a bit off?' and she just blew. She started screaming at me saying 'YOU UNGRATEFUL LITTLE *******!!!' etc, etc. Then she said 'You're not going to the party at all! Who on earth do you think you are!' and then she just went crazy, and threw me in my room.
She started bringing stuff up about how I never ask my dad for anything and why doesnt he buy me clothes and take me on holidays seen as he has so much money, and I explained he's in debt, and yes thats his fault but he has another family to support as well. (half brother and sisters etc.) This had nothing to do with this, and so I told her and she just went crazy. She always makes me feel so guilty, after a LOT of arguing she came and told me to get ready because I was going, but really quietley like it was my fault and she was being super nice. Apparently she didnt like the way I was speaking to her. If a normal person didnt like the way their child was speaking to them they'd just say so, or at least give them a warning like 'Dont talk to me like that' or something, she just went from being fine to being crazy and lashing out at me.
She buys me loads of clothes and things that I dont need nor ask for and then she brings that up in arguments and says how ungrateful i am and im always wanting more more more, nothings ever good enough for me. I dont know what to do, im a nice, normal teenager, i dont go out to clubs, or drink, or smoke like people in my year at school, I have a few nice friends, and she knows all of this and still she makes out like i'm some crazy out of control teenager, she makes me so mad!
Is this normal? Are your parents like this? Should I feel guilty? and how do you speak to your parents? Do you ever answer back or anything and how do they react?
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thats horrible, but in the end of the day shes your mum and i think she just stresses and probs feels unappreciated and obviously the fact ur parents r split up has probably taken its toll on ur mum . just ignore her and if she does it again give her a taste of her own medicine or just talk to her about it
maybe shes just extra sensitive ( ur mum sound a LOT like my sister)
x hope this helps
no it isnt really normal to be honest, my parents are super lenient i scream my head of and just get told to get to my room ( i feel real bad now) and yes i answer back 24/7 not so proud of that
when i get in trouble i cant stop laughing ;P but i do EVENTUALLY learn my lesson ---- ish
x they just say im a rude brat and go to my room and then i say sorry and i get hugged lol
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