how do you tell if a male teacher's eye contact is flirty or serious?

his eyes used to sparkle when he locked it with me for a second in the class..he is so gentle and vulnerable toward me

when i speak to him he is quite nervous and fails to answer some of my questions about the subject

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  • Are you sure this isnt just your imagination?

    When teachers teach, they always try to maintain some sort of eye contact with their better students - those who they believe are more interested in the subject or are more alert and focused. Just like any other good presenter, they feed off their audience. The students motivate him as much as he motivates them.

    I really do not think your teacher has a crush on you. Are you sure you are not flirting with him to make him nervous?

  • Don't worry about it. When you look back on it, it won't be so terrible. Guys don't have any idea how embarrassing it is to have a leak. We can't really control it at times, it sneaks up! White pants... I pity you ><. Next time your teacher is in a bad mood, ask if he had a woman accident. It doesn't matter what all your classmates think. If it'll make you feel better, people who aren't understanding usually wind up in worse positions than you were in. Take a deep breath. Think about doing your best with your homework. Homework is the only thing that will pay you back later - worrying about rude people is only going to make things worse for you. Take it as a lesson about how your body works. Embarassing, yes. But you can overcome this.

  • Yeah, sounds like he's probably got a little crush on you...leave it alone until you're 18 though...He could lose his license to teach if the wrong person gets wind of the relationship.

  • Far be it from me to say ask him why his actions towards you have changed. i say this due to not knowing your age. If your over age ask him to have a meeting after school with you as far as your education status in the classroom. If your under age...sorry to say but please just ignore the signals and find someone your age. too many have been hurt due to teachers/role models/ect: i hope i have helped in some way..

  • yea like da others said if ur over age den try 2 talk 2 him 2 find out if he likes u, if ur underage, u r entering da forbidden zone, n u should just try 2 act normal around him n ignore it

  • He's probably into you, but being that he's a teacher, he's really trying to just ignore it. Unless he's willing to lose his job, nothing's gonna happen...but you never know.

  • some men in any position still wannabe charming in some points.. but it doest make him a freak ~ or try to take this to the next level..... but if this annoying to you and just keep in distant .. oh~ act normal :D

  • maybe he is just the nervous type....??? or he really does like you but knows that he shouldn't as your teacher!

  • It doesn't matter. Don't even think about dating him. You'll bring trouble to him and yourself.

  • It doesn't matter... consider him your teacher and leave it at that.

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