My self esteem is low?
Or the past 2 years nobody treated my very well, I was continually bullied, like I was call fat, ugly, greaser, whore, c*nt, rat and other terrible names. Now I have switched schools and my marks went down really low, I went from A's and B's to C's and C-'S. And I fricking FAILED math last term!! I feel really pathetic about myself. What should I do?
Comments
Relax!
Don't be so hard on yourself. One day you'll find that all of the stuff you used to spend a lot of time worrying about didn't matter in the long run.
Focus on these few things
1. Try your best to get your grades up and keep them up (but don't stress. trust me it'll be okay).
2. Eat healthy and get plenty of exercise. Physical activity reduces stress and anxiety. Plus a healthy body is needed to support a healthy mind.
3. Positive energy. Put out positive energy to get positive energy (Don't be negative especially regarding yourself). surround yourself with positive people and ignore people who are negative.
Don't let people define you. Love yourself. As hard as that maybe sometimes please learn to love yourself. Build your confidence back up. Read self help books to build yourself. I moved to the US as an exchange student in high-school I was bullied, made fun of at times I didn't even want to go to school. But I learnt to love myself. It's a process and its a hard one. Today I'm still a working progress people who bullied me in school ended up been a bunch of nobodies, I see them on Fb just wasting their life away. It gets better, it got better in college. From the bottom of my heart the best thing you can do for yourself is to love yourself. Be confident. Look in the mirror everyday and tell yourself you love yourself and you are beautiful. When you believe that deep down nothing else anybody says will matter. Build yourself up. Be good to yourself and don't dwell on others opinions. Work hard and get your grades back up. Have a goal and be focused on that goal, and allow no distractions. Trust me one day you will look back and be like i really worried about that? It get better and you will realize that as you grow up. All the best and ill keep you in prayer.
I certainly have somewhat low shallowness, however the only individual i'm abusive to is myself. I make myself a doormat for different persons. So i assume somebody could be abusive in the direction of themselves. i'm an somewhat passive individual. commonly speaking nonetheless, I believe what you pronounced one hundred%
BE EPIC