My sister is extremely disrespectful.?
My sister is almost 15 and I'm 18. She has no respect for me. If I tell her good luck at her game or have fun at dance class, she tells me to shut up and slams the door in my face. The only words she really says to me is "I hate you" or "Shut up". This behavior has been going on for about two years and I am really getting sick of it. She never wants to do anything. She doesn't laugh or smile when she is with me. If I ask her if she wants to play a board game, she tells me to shut up. She goes in to violent rages if I say something to her about it. I have scars up and down my arms from her digging her nails into me. I don't fight back because shes a lot bigger than me. Recently, I discovered that she was sending naked pictures to boys and I told my mom. This incident probably increased her hate for me but I find that behavior to be disgusting and it's illegal. My mom talked to her and I found out that she was still doing it and told my mom. My mom doesn't do anything to punish her. She still has her cell phone and laptop. My dad doesn't know about her sending the pictures and he doesn't see her attitude as much of a problem since she is only really disrespectful to me. When I try to talk to my mom about her behavior, she says that it is my fault because I annoy her too much. It's come to the point where I barely talk to her. Although, it would be almost impossible to completely stop talking to her since we live together. Even if I don't talk to my sister for three days (which I've tried before to see if that would help), she will still have a terrible attitude and be disrespectful. I treat her with respect and do favors for her. I give her rides home from her sports practice. I drive her to her friends' houses and lend her money when she needs it. I don't know how to get her to lose her bad attitude and start becoming respectful.
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She shouldn't have to respect you just because she's your sister
Your like techincally her "elder" your older then her and she needs to treat you with respect. My sister is 19 and im almost 15 too though.. but if i did ANY of what your bratty *** sister did id be smacked so hard i wouldnt remember why i got smacked in the first place. and have the daylights escape me.
She may feel intimadated by you from the difference of age " fear that bites back" ever heard that saying? well thats what she's doing.
next time shes spitting and yelling at you say this... "im not going to be here forever and you can lose me at anytime and you'll regret everything youve ever said or done to me, think about it "
that should shut her up. but yeah if shes the youngest then thats why your parents are acting like that or they are probably blind from the most obvious.
stop being so nice to her she doesnt deserve that after what you say she does cause thats just horrible. if i had a sister/ brother like you id probably be the happiest person on earth. you take the time out of your day to play games and try to have a nice convo and she does that to you!
i just find that soo unbelieveable...
She'll grow out of it. 15 is a volatile age. Anyways, you are 18. Its time you start finding new friends, go beyond your family, find positive relationships with good new friends and buddies and a respecting girlfriend too. Leave your sister alone, go about your own life. In future years, you and your sister will be on good terms again, and if you look back, you can do so with some laughs. Part of being a man is not getting bowled over by antics like your sister does, and not returning her behaviour. Be strong, don't worry, give her her space, go forwards with your life, and look ahead with faith for better relations in the future.
Peace Bro !
Your sister is walking all over you, I would stop trying to help her out, because respect is a two way thing. When she realises that your not there to run her around or help her out she'll come running back. You do need to just let her get on with it, she does need to learn from her own mistakes which I can understand is hard as she is your younger sister. Things do get better when you don't live with family members as your not on top of each other all the time. Good luck.
I'm 20 and ma sister is 13 and she does it even in public she says rude stuff or even pass funny comments and half the time I feel frustrated and feel like slapping her dead but I just let it go even if it hurts me mum doesn't care dad thinks I'm wrong and it really hurts me..I try ignoring her but she'll come and start talking to me or even poke me knowing that dad will take her side..I just can't wait for next year so I could go for varsity hoping that I'll give her space to grow cause sometimes it makes me cry...so my advice to you is just pull back and act like you don't care at all don't give her rides try to give her time to grow...try talking to your mum and pour your heart out and show her it affects you a lot....I'll do the same.. that dad will take her side..I just can't wait for next year so I could go for varsity hoping that I'll give her space to grow cause sometimes it makes me cry...so my advice to you is just pull back and act like you don't care at all don't give her rides try to give her time to grow...try talking to your mum and pour your heart out and show her it affects you a lot....I'll do the same..