Do you respect or despise this guy?
A girl I know is friends with a guy that is 27 or 28 dating a 35 year old business woman, she pays everything for him and just bought him a house. He cheats on her and treats her like crap, but he still has her buy him everything. Do you respect this guy or despise him?
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Respect him....
who is this 35 yr old women..I need to meet her
It's basically impossible to either respect or despise someone I've never met. I dont much like what he's doing, but that lady is more or less asking for it. No one forces her to buy him things and I'll bet any amount of money that he has something she thinks is worth the money. I dated a fella that was way younger and I bought all kinds of things for him. He was worth every penny-all 8 years of it.
despise. would be the obviuos answer... but we all want what's best for us and obviously this woman is giving him all he needs. and therefore he's just taking advantage of that.... so i don't despise him.. he's smart... but i disrespect the woman, who continues to allow herself to be used, how can i respect the woman, if she can't respect herself. yet that stil doesn't mean that i'm fond of the guy's behaviour... but in the end its all the woman's fault and not his.. so my final asnwer is ... i don't despise these people, but i Disrespect them greatly! both of them
despise..
Where can I meet the woman?
She could take a couple of steps up in quality of guy and self esteem.
Damn, I am probably too old for her (at 47 yo) though I am a proven QUALITY breeding male...
Dbl Damn it! I am married.
I don't know why people on here are responding in such a shocked way, this is a VERY typical thing that seems to happen these days in time.
He doesnt know what respect is, therefore his never given it...soo he defintely doesnt get sh*t of my respect
I would never make a judgement call on something like that. I have no idea what kind of arrangement the two of them have. Perhaps she is just using him for sex and companionship and as long as she's getting what she wants, she doesn't care what he does when he's away from her. She may even have a husband at home that you don't know about.
I despise him for what he does, but respect him for the guts he has to do it with.
You have to either be a real ašshole or be willing to take some serious chances to do that.
I'm angry at the woman who obviously doesn't respect herself enough to find a man who isn't despicable.
He's a player, playing a game...he'll continue until he has to stop. If she isn't interested in stopping him, it's her own damn problem and his good luck.
i despise that selfish pigcrap of a guy
Despise.He needs to get kicked out into the streets.