how do I break out of a clique?
Okay, I no how when people are in cliques it generally means that these people are similar to u in interests, but these people are DEFINATLY NOT!!! i dont mean to be mean but these people use me as an emotional punching bag. Especially the boyfriend of my best friend and another one of my so called BFF's. They call me fat and stupid and lazy. The boyfriend's girlfriend (my best friend) wont talk to him about it even when I beg her! And when I asked him to stop, he does, but only for ten seconds. How can I break out of a clique where I'm miserable and not be friendless in the end??? Please help me!
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Maybe "being in the clique" wouldn't be so bad if your friends wouldn't involve you in their relationship problems. Those aren't good friends to begin with. If they insult you so much just find another "clique" or group of friends. It's not easy , but I've gone through switching cliques plenty of times. Then when you do switch cliques they shouldn't involve you in their relationship problems. I've had relationship problems and involving mutual friends just causes problems. unnecessary ones.
Good Luck
Just leave them. Somebody who calls you fat, stupid, and lazy, is NOT your friend. They don't respect you, so don't be their friend, even if nobody else likes you. Find other friends with the same interests. Try talking to random people. If you know of any friendly people, hang out with them. But no matter what, do not go back to those other people.
-CRK
Start meeting new people and just stop talking to your old clique, they don't deserve your friendship. In my opinion, it's best to be alone that with bad company
cliques .. why the **** do you care about them rofl.. just have friends that have the same interests and like you for who you are.. there doenst have to be a clique involved
you need to tell them that a real friend wouldnt treat you like that. and that shes the fat b**** and that you are better than her. and then you can always do the classic "oh btw your boyfriend is cheating on you with _____" or you can say "and everyone else is talkin behind your back" and just leave and stay with other people
You join another clique....People from different cliques can still be friends.
you should not listen to twitch 44 ... come on look at that avatar picture... a person that ugly surely does not know what the hell they are talking about and probably will not ever get laid ... listen... just quit being dumb and accept that you are "fat, stupid, and lazy" your friends seem awesome... i wanna meet them