self esteem crisis help?
i just got rejected by a boy and my friend gave me a 6 out of 10. i feel so ugly! i didn't think i was that bad.
i just got rejected by a boy and my friend gave me a 6 out of 10. i feel so ugly! i didn't think i was that bad.
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Perk up your 'self respect' a bit more and DON'T ASK friends to rate you! HOW DEMEANING! How can 'another imperfect' person RATE any other person and do it with ANY LEVEL of accuracy? Don't ask OTHERS 'how you look' and to 'rate you!' Whats WRONG with you girl??? LOOK IN THE MIRROR and if you see something you WANT to change that will MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER about yourself DO IT. Get some new and excitingly different clothes, OR create a diversified one just to THROW everyone off a bit! Then get a new 'do' or make a pact with yourself to use some 'new hair tools' to CREATE a new 'do' daily if you want. THINK ABOUT things you do and say and see if there is something there you would like to change too...then work on DOING IT. GO to some oddball places, meet NEW kinds of people and re-invent 'who you are.' Jump OUT of your 'cage' into a bright and different type of surroundings and just sit back and 'see what you find out there!'
MOST OF ALL understand this...the INSIDE you counts MORE than the outside you. Even truly UGLY people can sometimes almost TRANSFORM before your very eyes when you actually get to know them and realize they ARE BEAUTIFUL. Have you had this happen to you? I HAVE...its amazing! This is a perfect example of the inner person OUT SHINING ANY..of the outer problems that MIGHT make them a bit 'under rated.' And understand another thing...God made EVERYONE in this world 'different' for a REASON. You were not meant to be a 'duplicate' of anyone else. AND trying to become a 'Barbie Doll' image of sex and beauty will LEAD YOU down the 'wrong path' and AWAY from true happiness and satisfaction with your life! Your ALREADY a one of a kind...now just build yourself up a bit by doing a little 'work!'
VOLUNTEER some time to a 'help organization' because NOTHING helps build self-esteem better than 'giving help' to others. I KNOW...doesn't make sense, but its TIME TESTED and TRUE. In the Bible its called quite simply the 'Golden Rule.' Do unto others what you would want them to do to you.' It sounds a bit 'off' but by giving to other people we BUILD A BEAUTIFUL SELF.
Blessings to You,
Bunny7
It seems a little bit like you are just trying to get attention. However, if you really are suffering from self esteem issues, please do find someone that you could talk to about this. I'm not going to go look at your pictures, mainly because it shouldn't matter to you what I think. Confidence is the key to looking attractive to others. And who cares about some boy who gave you "6 out of 10"? I think it's a little bit pathetic to feel the need to rate others like that. He is probably very insecure himself.
Sophie out of all the shallow questions you have asked so far this is the lowest. tut tut
im not joining to see what you loo like, hells bells get over it, youll hear worse as you get older we have all been there