How do you deal with a disrespectful person?
Okay the area I live in isn't good AT ALL but my grades are great so there's 4 bus that comes and takes a few kids to this really rich school Over hills high. Well there is this one girl that lovesssssss acting like she's "hood" and swears she's bad because she's a senior. Which pisses me off because the way I feel is if your a senior come from a rich family (doctor mom and military dad but swear she so hood because her real dad in jail) why act like that? Then have the ordacity to take fun of people that have low income (on medicade or wellfare) like seriously you can have both. But the thing that kills me about her is she constantly talks crap about fighting. Like she tried fighting a freshman boy IN CLASS because he told her to shut the f up and gets up cussing. Then screams at the class for sharing stories an says how "she don't need to hear about personal lives she hear to learn" then expect others to listen to her stories that don't even have to do with the subject. I've always just been chill until today she had the nerve to sit in class talking to her friend goofing off, then when I was talking kept running her mouth an I thought something she yelled out had to do with what I was saying so I said yea I guess and she rudely says with attitude "I wasn't talking to your *** little girl". So I told her "how am I little and yet the same age as you? Just because your a senior don't mean nothing". So she got up getting loud in my face and only thing I had to do was push her an she fell running her mouth. That's when my teacher got invold an keep telling me to ignore her but ITS HARD!!! She is just so rude, disrespectful and a wanna be! Like be proud of who you are and where you came from! Oh yea and she loves saying slick comments about me because I'm a junior and turning 18 and how I'm so stupid but like I say don't knock me because I'm trying!! ADVICE PLEASE!!!
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That's all you can do is ignore her. I mean what else can you do besides purposely saying things to her to make her even more excited? You already don't like the girl, so the obviously and most sane thing to do is ignore her.
If she's a fake, oh well, that's her problem. We can't change people and how they act. Once she grows up a little and realizes her silliness, she may look back on it and become very embarrassed. When I was in the 5th grade, I thought something was wrong with me, I didn't curse, listen to hardcore rap or had an attitude like other girls. I had the nerve to ask them to teach me how to be 'hood' but i call it 'ghetto'. This went on for about a week, but one day i just realize that this was just not me and I had the guts and the common sense to stop.
This may be the problem with this girl. She probably thinks she has to be something she's not. I'm sure if her parents knew about this, they wouldn't be satisfied. So she's wearing two faces, one being fake.
This is not your problem. the next time you're around her, IGNORE her! don't look at her, don't respond to her ways, don't say anything. Just look the other way and care for yourself.