Am I a *****? No seriously am I?!?
Whenever, someone is in crises or in some sort of misery, I can't help but feel good! I mean not in the sadistic way but like I enjoy their distress. Once when my friend was rattling on about her break up with her bf and crying bitterly on the phone, I was on the other side, laughing quietly! I mean I did sympathize and empathize with her and all that but still, I felt so guilty about that later!
why why why?
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I think your'e funny,sure it does sound mean when written out,but I don't think you mean any harm by it,plus you know it's not nice and you do show empathy so I don't think you're all that bad.As long as you don't let this 'mean side' (especially the 'enjoy' bit) overshadow your kinder side then you should be OK.
Your not a *****. I kinda have the same problem. People often say that about the opposite gender, but that's just sexism. You know, like if a guy gets women, he's a stud, but if a girl gets men, she's a whore?
Men have put those rules up to just put women down. Your not a *****.
But yeah, I do the same thing your talking about, and it kinda makes me a jerk. But you don't sound like a *****, since you claim to have empathy for that person. I kinda laugh at other's situations when listening, but i try to help at the same time. Yeah, i do feel bad after wards too.
Trust me, a ***** is much worse. She'll yell at you for no reason have a sour attitude, and will always have to be right about everything, and when i say everything, i mean EVERYTHING!!!
And if she isn't right, she'll yell at you, as though she was a firebreathing dragon. She try to punch or slap you, and always make others problems even worse than before, on purpose. She might also try to sleep with her best friends BF, but thats a different kind of *****.
A ***** usually doesn't have a concious.
You just sound a little inconsiderate. But don't sweat it, just try not to be inconsiderate of others problems.
You need to be more compassionate for other people that are hurting. Some day the situation will be reversed and I'm sure you won't see it as funny or to make people happy. Just remember what comes around goes around. Also how can you say it isn't sadistic? It is.
Not so much that you could be a ***** but, maybe you're a little bit self concious about yourself and when other people have a bad time with something in life it makes you feel a little better in some way, Then again maybe you are lol.
Cause you are a *****, look if you wanna be nicer then just try and imagine yourself being in her position.
Its called shading freud invented by the german saikaiatrist.you get excited when people are in the schit
You've probably been hurt by others in your life and other people's tragedies and misfortunes subconsciously make you feel better.
sounds like you like others pain cause it makes you feel better about yourself...so in answer to your question...no offense but yes....you should stop
whooa, you shouldnt do that.. stop it really or someday you will get the payback when someone is laughing above your problem..
lmfaoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.! omg u do sound lyk a *****...