Hi just recently had anal sex with my girlfriend, was only for a second before it was hurting her, found that she was bleeding a small bit, what are the risks without a condom etc etc, is it poss for aids, don't know much about that topic.
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both got checked before for stds
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i think you already know the answer to that...yes, it is possible for aids only if one of you actually have it though...and whether or not she bleeds or not, she's at probably a greater risk of getting it than you...i'm a 35 year old female and i love anal sex...try vaginal secretions for lube and take your time with it and she may start to enjoy it and not to offend you but i find that gay pornstars could teach straight men how to properly do it (via video) better than straight porn stars....so check out some tiger tyson and you'll be pleasing her in no time guaranteed :-D
The 2 primary ways anal sex possibly harmful could be damage and sickness/STD dangers. Both of these may also be minimized and condoms will also be a part of that plan. Anal sex generally is a trustworthy and gratifying expertise when you keep just a few things in mind. SFSI's FAQ (see hyperlink under) gives lots of important points, however the important ideas are conversation, lubrication, patience, and security. Anal tissue is skinny and can tear simply. Use lots of lube, take your time, and discontinue if there's any ache. If you're using a condom, ensure you employ water-established lube with a latex condom; if you wish to use an oil-headquartered lube, be definite to use a polyurethane condom instead of a latex condom. There are some issues about feces in the course of anal sex and the transmission of illnesses. Most likely, washing across the anus with heat water and soap is adequate for eliminating micro organism. In the event you or your accomplice are involved about poop, some folks consider extra cozy having anal intercourse after having an enema. Keep in mind that there are some bacteria in the anal tract that should not get into the vagina. Utilizing a condom can lower the chance of transferring bacteria into the vagina after anal intercourse considering the fact that that you could exchange to a new condom with no need to discontinue and wash. Condoms can be precious in preventing the transmission of STDs. The SF city health facility chance Chart lists many STDs that may be transmitted throughout anal sex including gonorrhea, chlamydia, HIV, herpes, and syphilis. If neither partner has an STD, then you aren't at hazard.
Anal sex is the riskiest form of sexual contact, it has the highest rate of STD prevalence, the risks without condom usage just make it go higher, its best to use spermicide and condoms when performing anal sex to minimize the risks, even though you both previously doesn't mean it couldn't develop during this anal act,and that does include HIV but because you said it wasn't that long, you should be okay.
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