Do people deserve numerous chances ?
This guy I used to be friends with I cut contact in October 2012 and yesterday he just messaged me and said he's sorry and I was right but the funny part is he's done this 4 times already its like a circle with him. I cut contact because he is a douche bag, self centered, and ignoramus. He claims he's changed and he said he doucheness won't happen again, should I be friends with him again or do you think history will repeat itself ?
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4 TIMES!? Then absolutely not!
If it has happened too many times then it's not worth it. He will never change and he will keep hurting you and making things difficult for you both to have a friendship. Just contact him back and say "look I don't mean to be funny in any way and i do accept your apology but I don't want to be friends with you anymore it has never worked out before so I don't think it will work again I wish you the best for the future" that's it
Keep your friendship options open and don't burn bridges or make enemies, but just move on. Focus your time and attention on other things and other friends and let this one wither.
No, they don't actually. Sometimes enough is enough! History will repeat itself again and again unless he has changed! Has he?
Tell him you're not going to take any $h!t any more and that if he really wants to be your friend then he better start acting like one.
i think they do, we all make mistakes and i would want someone to forgive me if i've changed but if he does the same thing again i wouldnt give him another chance