is viewing porn ok in this particular context?
First of all I am not talking about viewing actual sex or even naked women. When I say porn I am talking about say women in lingerie pictures or sports illustrated swimsuit stuff. Let me provide the context. I have no girlfriend, have no social skills, shake when I am trying to engage any woman in a conversation, have always been called to nice by women and no woman has ever shown the least bit of interst in me despite my above average appearance and decent enough financial situation and independence. I see no hope of ever meeting anyone so maybe it is OK? I am almost 27 and still a virgin and have never even been on a date. I am not hurting anyone the women I am viewing I will never actually meet anyways and even if I did meet a girl in real life they would not be interested in me so the possibility of committing a future sin by letting lust in my heart is next to zero because if I did make a move I would just get slapped in the face haha. Soooo...as long as it is fantasy it is OK given my situation? If it is not, please tell me why. Sure Jesus said don't lust but he was talking about people fortunate enough to be married not to losers like me who don't stand a chance of ever getting a real woman. Why does God do this to me puts this stupid need inside of me that I can never get and so I settle for fakery and even that is 'sinful'. Please give me some serious answers.
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No, I'm sorry, but even in this situation, viewing porn is still un-Godly and is considered a sin by God Himself. It says several times in the Bible "But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality". It is stated often and repeatedly because God cares deeply about this topic. He does not want His people to indulge in immorality. It states several times throughout the Bible that we should "abstain...from sexual immorality."
If you need more proof, I have included references below that say better what i tried to say above. In God's timing, if He so desires, He will bring you a wife, and when that day comes, you will be so glad that you refrained from looking at any type of porn.
1 Corinthians 6:12-13
1 Corinthians 6:18-19
Colossians 3:5
1 Corinthians 10:8
1 Thessalonians 4:3
Matthew 15:19
Mark 7:21
Ephesians 5:3
Hope this helps! Don't give in to your human desires. Don't give up hope on God.
I might provide an explanation for the normal bad outlook upon porn stars, such a lot men and women wouldn't have a well opinion of those people who are porn stars. The possibility of having an STD and the way it's going to appear unhealthy on her resume if porn does not figure out for her. And frankly even supposing she does believe it is sizzling what's going to she do whilst porn administrators attempt to push her into hardcore? Basically Google the downsides of porn and incorporate that on your argument. I'm hoping the STD factor will give up her. How many director and film makers will truthfully ensure that the actors are STD unfastened? Hope it really works out.
Jesus said if you look at a WOMAN with lust you have committed adultery in your heart.
Keywords: "Woman", "Adultery"
Whenever you see the word "woman" in the bible is actually referring to a female who is married
And "adultery" means marital unfaithfulness
AND Jesus was talking TO married men at the time (he continues on directly after that to tell them when they can and cannot get divorced).
So guess what? You, being single, are perfectly free to have a perve at single, hot women. Go for it.
Yes, it's still wrong.
Grow a pair and go ask some girl out. You'll find the whole fear of rejection thing is not as bad as it is in your head.
two options:
1. be normal, jerk off to porn or plow some slut like a real man
2. believe in some magical sky wizard who sent a genie to earth to grant wishes to some barbaric desert-folk two millenniums ago, while you grow old and alone (in a dark house full of musty newspapers) letting your testicles become swollen blue tennis balls
Women in lingerie or swim suits isn't even porn... If God complains, tell him you're admiring his handywork...
get into a social situation either through sport, art, a few beers after work with your workmates, or whatever. somewhere out there is a female who is for you , let her find you , be natural.
good luck
I got myself a japanese robot, the japanese are a zillion miles ahead of everyone in this technology.
UN-GODLY and DARK-SIDED
The human body is unnatural and should not be seen. If you see a naked woman, who is not your wife, your eyes will burn out.
Just watch porn.
It's fun.