do quiet guys get as much girls as loud guys do?
ok, so theres this guy at my work who gets alot of girls numbers. he's had sex like alot of times. the thing is he talks alot and is pretty funny. i sit in the cubicle next to him and i'm a little quiet. i'm still young, 19 years old, and hes 25. my question here is, can quiet guys get girls like loud and confident guys do just as long as we have confidence? this guy is very dominant and confident and kinda makes me look lower. can someone answer this? thanks in advance.
-joe
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i don't know. i've been both guys in different stages of my life and it was a lot easier to meet girls when i was loud and not timid. but hey good luck either way
personally i would date the quiet one! Loud cockey guys are nothing but show off and normally lead to being jerks.Plus youll warm up to her after a while...its kinda a thing were its what kinda guy she likes...(dont kick yourself in the tail though) theres alot of girls who like quiet guys
Well der was a boy at my college who was very quite he had a couple of girlfriends in my 2 yrs of college.
however he was good lookin, So if u r u dont have 2 work dat hard 2 get a girl.
I get more girls than any of my friends (most of which are he loud kinda of guys). I am 23 and speak softly and infrequently (unless I am enjoying the conversation).
personally i wouldnt date a quiet guy but i also wouldnt date a loud cocky guy thats a player. i would want a guy that is confident with himself and would approach me. not a guy that sits by himself and never talks.
I am very quiet and like you I do not seem to get the girl and that is very annoying and very tiresome
Like George Castanza, when something doesn't work, try doing the opposite.
true, confident guys will get more girls as there easier to approach its hard to approach someone if there quiet, theres always the fear of the awakrd silence, lack of perosnailty, confidence, these are all turn offs and people are afriad to find these so they stick to the confident people
put yourself out your comfort zone, the more you do this the more natural it will come to u
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