I am so depressed. please help :(?
Few months ago, I was rushed to hospital after a car accident,
I was very lucky to survive according to doctors, and i very nearly didnt.
All the time i was in hospital, my fiancee , even though informed of my condition, never came to the hospital to see how i was, only texted my family once.
Since being released, my fiancee has been very distant.
Now ive found out that all the time I was in hospital, in a critical condition, he was sleeping with someone else. the affair had been going on for all the time we had been together.
im totally heartbroken, how do i ever get over this.
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What the first guy said.
Are you okay now?
Please. Stop referring to him as your fiance. That's the first step. You will get over this.
My best girlfriend, a long time ago, was literally left standing at the altar. She got over it - it took a long time, and she ended up sleeping around and self-medicating with booze etc, and pretty much handling it all wrong, but she got over it. I'm hoping you won't compound your heartache by piling more mistakes on top of mistakes like she did. All that does is gives you more things to "get over".
But regardless - rest assured, you will get over this, and life will be sweet again, and you will fall in love again, and...you will have your heart broken again, and you'll get over it again...until the right guy comes along, and he'll break your heart a little with a cruel word here and there, and you'll break his a little, but they won't be "deal-breakers" because the love is so strong between the two of you...hold out for that one.
Cant help it but calling you unlucky in love like many others. I would like you to dump him for good & move on with your life. If the one you love does not care for you how do u expect to live with him for life. You need to climb up in your life and do many other things. Do not fret over what has happened. Look for new love. That's the name of the new game in this part of the century.... all the best!!
What a jerk......General male population is like that ......but be strong and move on....
Well it was probably for the better that yo found out about him before you got married
So just look at teh brighter side....you will probably find somebody who is more deserving of you
what a prick. honestly someone who does that kind of thing isn't worth worrying about. you'll find someone else, and you'll get over it. it's not like you did anything wrong, i mean, he's the one who pulled the cowardly move of taking advantage of your condition and trust. don't dwell on it too much - go out and have fun with friends, enjoy your life, and i promise you'll forget about that douche.
just be happy and do not think of what he has done at least u have known him that he in not reliable. u need r&r. be carefree . trust in god because he is creating a good situation for u... i wish u get better