characteristics of Daddy Issues?
I have been without a Dad for a long time, my whole life really and i want to know if i have Father Issues i know Girls who tend to like older men have Daddy Issues. That's what i like too, I'm 16 and I like guys who are 20 or 30 almost. What are other things that Daddy Issues cause ?
is it true if you like to be dominated sexually you have daddy issues ?
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it could be labled as daddy issues and yes i believe so
Daddy issues only apply when you hate older men. Daddy issues can be applied in just about any situation, which makes it all irrelevant.
If a girl is attracted to older men, people will claim "daddy issues" all ways:
1) She loves her daddy so much, she wants to have sex with a guy similar to him.
2) She hates her dad, so she wants revenge on him by having sex with an older guy.
3) She had no daddy, so she craves a fatherly man to be close with.
Girls like older guys because they are more mature, they know (mostly) how to treat a woman well, they have self control, they have established & stable careers, and they usually have provided for a family at some point. Since women are 3-5 years more mature than men, it's totally normal for girls to like guys 3-5 years older (or more sometimes).
Bottom line: You're a normal 16 year old girl. You like who you like. Don't over think it.
If you think you have issues because you were missing a male role model in your life, then seek counseling and talk about it.... issues don't disappear into thin air. And a therapist is trained to help people develop skills to cope with things they might believe are missing in their lives.
I can't say whether you have "daddy issues" or not... you are the only person who knows how you are feeling, hon.
take care.
You could end up dancing on a pole.