How do you improve your self esteem?
My horrible self esteem is a result of nasty comments by certain people. I have a giant nose and alot of people have made mean comments about it. My body isnt all that great and I have tyres. I'm 14 years old and I'm sick and tired of this. I want to walk about with my head held high. How do I improve my self esteem?
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You need to stop valuing others' opinions so highly above your own. You shouldn't care what people think about your appearance. As soon as you start believing in your own self-worth, others will treat you better.
Humans are still very primitive creatures and can be very cruel. Life isn't fair, but it is what it is. You need to adapt to it, then others will adapt to you.
Try not to care what other people think of you. Honestly, if someone makes fun of you for the way you look, that person is just displaying his or her ignorance. They can't think of anything else to say or does their brain not even work beyond that level? Sometimes I can't help but laugh at people who have nothing better to do than make other people feel bad; it doesn't say anything good about them.
And always listen to the good doctor:
Those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.
-Dr. Seuss
Ignore them, even if it's hard, ignore them. Don't let them get the best of you, nobody should put anyone down like that. And think about stuff that makes you special, like maybe a special talent you have.( when I'm feeling bad I go talk to my parents. They can make you feel a lot better) wear clothes that make you feel confident and good about yourself. I'll start making you feel better now: You're awesome!!!!!
First of all, I want to apologize for all those ignorant people that seem to need to make those horrible comments. My friend, that is usually because they don't feel good about themselves and want to make themselves feel better. If you can do this think of yourself the way that God thinks of you. He created you, and He does not make junk. You can hold your head high because you know that God loves you for WHO you are. It can be very hard to ignore those negative comments, but try and consider the source and realize that God loves you, and there are people out there that will come into your life and speak words of love and comfort to you.
Theres three options: Let me see a pic of you so I may laugh... j/k, you can just say fucckk the world, or get a nose job. I like Fucckk the World!!!!! I just thought of something... look at Jay-z, copy his swagger.