1. if he tells you straight out (unprovoked) that he isnt a player, he probably IS a player, because otherwise why would he need to even mention this?
2. hes very smooth...Does he have an answer for everything? A really good answer for everything? I'm not surprised. as it comes from years of practice. He's made all the big mistakes and has plenty of experience with smoothing things over. He knows what you want to hear, because he's learned well from his previous enablers. Don't add yourself to the list.
3.He's always slightly aloof. He pays just enough attention to make you crave more, but little enough to make you wonder how interested he really is. This ploy is designed to make you want more -- which is what most of you end up doing -- and some of you will go out of your way to get his attention via methods you wouldn't normally lower yourself to. That's exactly what he wants; you crawling on your knees for his attention.
4.His communication skills suck.
Unless there's a very good reason, if a man doesn't answer your text/email/phone call within 24 hours, he's playing a game. And the men who deny the truth of that statement by claiming that some men are just too busy...? They're full of shite. If you really like someone, you can find a minute to at least text them. No one is that busy! If your man does this on a regular basis, he's playing games.
5. He makes you feel like you're overreacting when you're not.Let me give you an example: He promises to call you at 8pm, but doesn't contact you until the next day. Why? Because he decided that pizza with his mates would be more fun. When asked why he couldn't be bothered to let you know, to send you a text at least, he replies by making you feel like you're being clingy or too demanding. This guy is a tosser!
6.he will hint at sex, and will find ways to getting you to end up sleeping with him - yep, he's smooth
A guy who flirts with a bunch of girls.. you notice he checks you out confidently while you can see him do it.. he sweet talks you, then when you turn around he's doing the same thing to a different girl.
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1. if he tells you straight out (unprovoked) that he isnt a player, he probably IS a player, because otherwise why would he need to even mention this?
2. hes very smooth...Does he have an answer for everything? A really good answer for everything? I'm not surprised. as it comes from years of practice. He's made all the big mistakes and has plenty of experience with smoothing things over. He knows what you want to hear, because he's learned well from his previous enablers. Don't add yourself to the list.
3.He's always slightly aloof. He pays just enough attention to make you crave more, but little enough to make you wonder how interested he really is. This ploy is designed to make you want more -- which is what most of you end up doing -- and some of you will go out of your way to get his attention via methods you wouldn't normally lower yourself to. That's exactly what he wants; you crawling on your knees for his attention.
4.His communication skills suck.
Unless there's a very good reason, if a man doesn't answer your text/email/phone call within 24 hours, he's playing a game. And the men who deny the truth of that statement by claiming that some men are just too busy...? They're full of shite. If you really like someone, you can find a minute to at least text them. No one is that busy! If your man does this on a regular basis, he's playing games.
5. He makes you feel like you're overreacting when you're not.Let me give you an example: He promises to call you at 8pm, but doesn't contact you until the next day. Why? Because he decided that pizza with his mates would be more fun. When asked why he couldn't be bothered to let you know, to send you a text at least, he replies by making you feel like you're being clingy or too demanding. This guy is a tosser!
6.he will hint at sex, and will find ways to getting you to end up sleeping with him - yep, he's smooth
7. he has a LOT of female friends
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A guy who flirts with a bunch of girls.. you notice he checks you out confidently while you can see him do it.. he sweet talks you, then when you turn around he's doing the same thing to a different girl.
If you think he might be a player, he probably is, and you should just keep you distance, unless someone you know can confirm it otherwise.
We're all players. It's all just a matter of timing and if a more appealing opportunity presents itself.
Watch his eyes, facial and body language, whether he pays attention to you or himself, does he seem impatient.
When he flirts/ check out other girls. Also when he has alot of confidence, and his cocky.
flirts alot. Doesn't pay attention to what you have to say.
wears a red cap, lots of bling, and baggy pants.
Check out his past behavior with other girls.
He'll say things like "I love you" and try to have sex with you