Who Do I Choose As My Groomsman?

I'm having trouble deciding who to choose as a groomsman, my fiancees brother or her sisters partner. I get along really well with them both and known them both for a while now, I feel her sisters partner may be a bit more reliable but feel a little more obliged to ask the brother. I've already chosen my best man and there will only be 2 bridesmaids, therefore 2 groomsmen just to keep things even.

Any Advice?

Comments

  • Your probably right about using you future brother In law first, but to be on the safe side ask you soon to be bride.

  • If you choose a groomsman, pick the man who could really be there for you and who feels like family to you. In choosing a gift for your groomsman, check this out for cool groomsmen gifts http://www.executivegiftshoppe.com/ungrgi.html

  • Ask your bride for her opinion, then go with it:) Maybe you can find a "job" for the one not chosen. Good luck!

  • you should pick whomever you feel close to. if you have brothers or cousins or friends, you should pick them. if you feel close to your fiancee's brother then pick him. and if you are close with her sister's partner, then pick him too! it doesn't have to be even with her bridesmaids.

  • pick which ever one you're closest with and have the other be an usher...good luck!!

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