how do you make a guy respect you?
well theres this guy in my class that has no respect for me he keeps telling me he loves me and i keep telling him that if he really loved me he wouldnt treat me this way: grabs my ***, keeps touching me... and its really disturbing lik grabbin my neck in a weird way. i have no idea what to do and he wont stop touching my *** or any part of me.. what do i do to make him stop? its getting out of hand because today this guy actually told us to " get a room". and i dont want to have sex with this guy at all and hes told me he does. what does this all mean? and i how do i get him to respect me?
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next time he touches you...kick him in the nuts or something....theres a thing called boundaries....he doesnt respect them...and chances are he wont....if he doesnt listen when you tell him no or stop then he wont ever respect you....some guys are just pricks like that....
The thing is with hormone driven boys is he is seeing you as a sex target! He is focusing more on getting you into bed then anything else! When I was in the eighth grade there was this boy who was doing the exact same thing! It drove me nuts, where ever I was he would make sure to be right behind me and touch me! What he is doing is sexual assault and im not saying to charge him or anything, but scare him a little! Tell him you dont appreciate him doing that, and you are not attracted to him in anyway! Tell him that if he doesnt stop then you are going to do something about it! Let him know that he is hurting your feeling by touching you when you dont want to be touched! The noy in the eighth grade after about 6 months of taking it, i told him one day that if he did it again that he was going to be sorry! Needless to say he stopped after that and we became great friends!!
Good Luck
How old are you by the way???
Speak to a faculty member and inform them that you are being sexually harassed.
Most of us govern and control our behavior based on the norms of the society. If he doesn't care about any norms, he's likely either a halfwit, or he will turn out to be a sexual deviant of one kind or another. Or both. That is, if he's physically touching women who he isn't in a mutual relationship with, even when told not to. There's something wrong there.
He thinks he is funny and that you enjoy it. Have nothing to do with him at all and let him know why. It will wise him up about girls and let the class know you're not going to put up with that kind of stuff from anyone. Some boys that age are just run by their hormones and have no sense. They all need a lesson.
You lose all contact with him, if it gets more serious then that then tell him you're going to call the cops on his ***.
Another things.. he is continuing to do this because you're not doing anything about it! So do something about it before it gets worse!
Respect is earned. Apparently this guy has no boundaries. Next time he grabs you, slap is face in front of everyone, he'll get the hint.
You have to show him that what he is doing isn't right, that you're not going to take him grabbing or touching you. You need to tell an adult that he is touching you or one of your friends that can protect you. Safety in numbers.
if a guy doesnt respect u when he is at a young age then most likely he will not respect women when he gets older...also...that is UR BODY..no one deserves to touch you if u dont want him to! Tell ur teacher..parents..because if one of my girls told me this I would def handle it!
You earn respect, you cant make someone respect you.
Let him know what your values are, and stick to them. Dont be a jerk, be polite to everyone althoug you should do that anyways, and just be yourself.
1) say NO when you mean it
2) have an ego as big as his (trust me on this one)
3) sometimes it helps to make him look bad or ignore him, because he won't think he's too good for you
GOOD LUCK!!!
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