sex issues.?

i just finished my menses last week. when can i do sexual intercourse without using condom or pills and not getting pregnant? i am old enough to do sex but i'm really confused. and anyway, i am not yet married. only dating for 4 years.

Update:

is condom really safe? cos' my friend's mum used condoms for all her childs but got pregnant for all 3 of them!

Comments

  • If you haven't just ovulated, are currently ovulating or just ovulating you are most likely safe...but there is no way to know for sure when this "safe time" will be for you. While most women ovulate about 14 days after they begin their period it is possible to ovulate at ANY time during your cycle and assuming that certain times are safe is quite risky. Why don't you just go on the pill or use some other kind of protection to be safe if you don't want to be pregnant?

  • Sexual intercourse without condoms or pills is asking for trouble and pregnancy. Even having sex during a period can lead to pregnancy. The only time you can have sex and not have the risk of getting pregnant is when you are past the menopause, usually around the age of 50-55.

  • Well going by the way you talk I would say you are 12 not 21. And you dont do sexual intercourse you have sexual intercourse. Do yourself a favour and go get some sex ed classes and I think english classes would probably go along way too.

  • Safe period is 5 days before menses and 5 days after menses.....! There is actually more than these 10 days..

    BUT This will be a very much safe period..

    if you have regular periods' .. other wise its not safe at all...!

    Do take care... and Enjoooy....!

  • dude u gotta use condoms or make sure she is taking th pill u need to take both

    save for when ur married

  • hmm, that's really cool, but my advice for you to get married soon, yes you old enough to have sex,, but you will be more old for married if you continue to have sex without married

  • just by asking this question goes to show your not that grown up

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