My mum knows i Cross dress!?
Hi. I love to wear woman's clothes like swimsuits, panties, bra's, dresses ect. Anyway about 1 month ago i took one of my mum's dresses because i was getting bored of the ones i bought and hid it under my bed. With a few of my other stuff that i had bought. And now i can't see he dress, but all of my things are still there. This was a couple of days ago but she hasn't said anything? I'm scared she might say something. Also about 1 year ago i ordered a wig, and my mum opened it, but said i know this is not for you and smiled. I'm so confused 
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Well it seems to me you should stick to your own clothes that you bought. It might be that your mum thinks the clothes are for someone else anyway. But it is more likely that she waiting for you to say something about it.
Its cool that she has not hassled you about it or gone completely bonkers. When it happened to me my mum went mental & told all my school friends. But that was years ago. So actually I think you might be nicely suprised if you did talk to you mum about it.
Yes, your mum does know that you cross-dress, and her actions are giving you a message.
Your mom's message is: (1) keep this under control and private. (2) do not use my things - ever. (3) I will discuss this with you when you are ready to talk about it.
When you are ready do take the opportunity to talk to her about it because you have nothing to lose. Your mom will want to know these things: Are you gay? Are you unhappy being a boy? Do you feel like you are really a girl trapped in a boy's body? Or, are you just a normal, healthy, heterosexual guy with a cross-dressing fetish. Tell your mum that you are a normal, healthy, heterosexual guy, and you just cross-dress because it makes you happy. Tell her that you don't want to keep it a secret from her, but you do want to keep it private, and only cross-dress in the safety and privacy of the home. Also tell her that you are interested in dating and developing your social skills like a normal bloke.
I think you have a wonderful mum, and you don't have anything to fear.
If this is something that developed over your adolescence, and gives you sexual gratification, then it is a fetish. You are using objects as a substitute for your need for human intimacy. Most guys with this fetish are heterosexuals, and they just keep it limited and under control. If this is your case then you should set limits that you can live with, and stick within those limits.
Your brain is hard-wired to release dopamine and other neurotransmitters when you feminize yourself. Its just as if your brain interprets cross-dressing as actual contact with a female. Your brain releases the neurotransmitters and you feel sensations of well-being, pleasure, comfort, gratification, and bonding. It affects the reward centers of your brain, and that is why it mimics the addiction response. You cannot stop your brain from releasing neurotransmitters, so you have to learn how to cope with this.
The only real problem with this fetish is about setting your limits and keeping it private. Also many guys with this fetish end up with a low self esteem and poor social skills. That is because most youths spend their teens working desperately on their social skills and doing everything they can to get a girlfriend. So you need to avoid time alone nursing your fetish, and instead go out and date girls, learn how to dance, and develop social skills. Learn how to tell jokes, and compliment others. Tell girls you think they are wonderful, and just leave it at that.
You don't say how old you are, but if you can buy your own things, then you should be old enough to have some say in what you do. Either talk to your mom about it or put your girl things on and let your mom catch you or at least see you in them. That always breaks the ice "QUICK".
Then explain to her how much you like and want to wear the clothes. Mom's are mostly understanding and more helpful than other people.
Let me know how you make out at misscdlee at yahoo dot com
Just wear the dress under the bed and say the wig is for the dog
i do too, so What? i dont live at home anymore, i have a fullfilling job,fantastic mental and physical health, an excellent relationship and people think i am cool and always consult me for advice and personal counseling. Cant ask more than that.
She's probable a sprint at a loss for words. no person on right here can guess wisely whether or no longer she is conscious...She could think of youre paying for those products on your GF, she could suspect you have been go dressing. in case you experience like speaking to her, in case you think of it may help, you'll be able to as properly try.