A small doubt???????????????????

Guys how can a man feel love towards the same sex(gay) and also how could lesbians do that.

Is it something they are born with or it is a mental phenomenon.

Sorry If I am being rude, I am just curious.

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  • Okay this is coming from a gay man:

    My last girlfriend was in 7th grade when I realized that all I wanted to do with her was hang out and be friends and talk and go do **** together. I didn't have that physical attraction to girls and when I thought about it... I never did. Even when I started to get curious about sex I thought I was supposed to like the girls but all I wanted to look at was the guys. As I have gotten older so has my appreciation for men. I love the muscles on a guy and his lower voice and the toughness that a guy has ( not that there aren't tough women but overall I mean).

    I really believe it was something I was born with but did not realized till I hit puberty. When I think about being with someone I just can't even imagine a woman, I really can't. Not just on a sex level, but sharing a life with. Greeting my wife every day after work... is just not applicable in my head.

    I hope this helps your curiosity...

  • "Guys how can a man feel love towards the same sex(gay) and also how could lesbians do that."

    Curtis let me ask you some questions:

    1. Do you think women are hot?

    2. Do you feel attractions to women?

    3. Do you feel love for women?

    Guess what? So do I. I feel attractions to women the same way you do. It's common sense.

  • I'm afraid it's rather difficult to explain sexual attraction. Just think of that little thrill you get from the thought of touching or looking at a person of the opposite sex, and that's about as close as you'll be able to get. There is also evidence to suggest that homosexuality is something a person is born with, but nothing concrete as of yet. And don't worry about it, curiosity is a good thing :)

  • There is overwhelming evidence that one is born gay. They have identified differences in brain stem sizes and many other phenomenon which clearly shows that it firstly comes from a physiological difference. Nurture (OR the way people are brought up) however plays a major role in whether the person will acknowledge his sexuality, or will live in denial. It is therefor quite possible to be GAY, but because of societal pressures, the person will marry and have kids.

    The opposite is also true, we see that men who do not have access to woman (e.g. long term jail sentences) live a gay lifestyle, but are not really gay. Once they have access to women, they return to their preference.

  • I'm not gay...and its still under debate whether people turn gay or are born gay...but I personally think that people are born that way. Maybe some people don't realize they're attracted to the same sex until they're older, but I still think that the majority of gay people are born attracted to the same sex.

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