NO DUMB OR RUDE REMARKS PLZ.?
I was dating this guy for 5 months off and on though.And we don't really get to see each other but we really care bout each other a lot.i Love him.We are both 17 and I no we are still kids but i believe that i really do love him.but the other day one of my homies that's a guy texted my bf pretending to be me and said to him Ur a ***** and u got a small d___ and that i got another man over here anyways.well i didn't know that he did that but when i found out i was so scared that he was going to be so so so so angry and sure enough he was he texted me and told me that he knew it all along and that he should have never said that he wanted to be together forever it hurt me so much for him to say that to me.i called and called and called and called him finally he answered and barely let me even explain myself.i let him no that it wasn't me that sent it and he was still mad and told me that he just wants to be my friend.i asked him the same night of he loves and cares bout me and has feelings for me and he said yea.but then the next day he still wanted to b just friends and he then told me that he doesn't love me anymore at all.HOW COULD HE LOSE FEELINGS FOR ME OVER NIGHT???COULD HE HAVE BEEN FRONTiN THE WHOLE TIME???
he now has been acting kind of mean to me when we text and stuff but idk Wat to do.we were texting last nite and i told him that he doesn't have to love me its fine and that if friends is what he wants to be then that's fine but its going to take awhile for me to be completely over him and that if he wants me to be completely outta his life and leave him alone forever all he has to do is say so and i will cuz i just want him to b happy and that i hope the right girl of his dreams comes so he can fall madly in love and be happy...
we don't really see each other cuz we live 2 hours away and i haven't seen him in 2 months he was supposed to come this coming Tuesday but i asked him today if he was still coming and he said "there's no reason to go over there there's nothing to do and we aren't together it'd be stupid if i came there's no point in going"...I don't understand y hes being such a jerk to me.
he says that he doesnt want me outta his life he jus wants to be friends.he acts as though the text was my fault when it wasnt.WE ARE GOIN TO TALK ON THE PHONE TONIGHT.SHOULD I MENTION OR ASK HIM ANYTHING OR WHAT SHOULD I DO SHOULD I JUS ON MY OWN JUS STOP TEXTIN HIM BACK AND JUS STAY AWAY OR SHOULD I JUS STAY HIS FRIEND AND HOPE THAT THINGS CHANGE????
Update:COULD MY BF HAVE BEEN LYIN THIS WHOLE TIME BOUT LOVIN ME???
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go on ur own...everyone finds two loves. Maybe by not being with him another better person will come
anyway if u want to be with him don't let it settle cause if it does ur out of luck. U have to talk to him in person because then he can't run away from u
Aw this is true love, all guys tease girls because they like her
everyone knows that! A guy doesn't care about how smart or dumb you are , and I'm pretty sure your not dumb if you got into uni! And you guys talk alot, so by the looks of it, you are perfect for each other. Go for it and good luck!
I know how you feel I went through a similar situation recently but we weren't dating.
One of my close friends said they had feelings for me and I felt the same way and he promised he'd ask me out but, he never did. And said he had to think about it. Then he left me hangin and told me he didn't feel the same way and that he liked other girls and was somewhat involved with his friend Alissa.. he asked her out and she said no and then he started going after my friend who said no cause afterall its chicks over D!cks.
lol.
But he was avoiding me and being rude and saying he was doing so that I wouldnt start liking him again..
So I was fed up and told him that I was sick of it, and now we're just friends. But of course the situation still goes on and he is tying to set me up with his friend who I dont even know.. or have feelings for... hes supposed to call me tonight to discuss "important things" but I wont be surprised if he starts more crap..
Sorry to burden you with my life story.
But what worked for me was to just be friends. He avoided me and continued to hurt me and I didnt even do anything to him so I decdied if I didnt want to continue the heartache I just gave up knowing that he didn't feel the same for me and he probably never will, although I still feel like I have feelings for him.
You are being a good sport by wishing him only the best and doing what he wants, but he also has to understand how you feel and that this is effecting you negatively.
When you talk to him tonight you should probably tell him that you still have strong feelings for him and that this was just a misunderstanding and you didn't want it to end up like this because you never knew your friend did that in the first place.
If he just wants to be friends still, then it might be best if you just cooperate. As hard as it sounds sometimes its the best thing to do. It is hard but God has a reason for everything and this is just a stepping stone in your life. If he chooses to be only friends and not to be the guy of your dreams, don't worry the right guy will be waiting around the corner to sweep you off your feet and treat you the right way and understand your mistakes.
I wish you the best and I'm sorry you have to endure this.
Good luck! I hope it works out.
because that texts that your guy friend sent him hurt his feelings. he's very likely to be putting a front. you should explain to him that your idiot guy friend sent that text. not you.
i think that he really did love you. its just that you hurt his feelings. so now, he doesn't wanna have anything to do with you.
how would you feel if he called you a ***** and a horrible lay? and he knows about your first love. hes probably thinking that your first love gives you better sex than him.