Why do guys prefer trampy girls over quality girls?

Why would a guy pass up a quality girl for one that is trampy and comes on WAAAAAAY too strong? My ex used to tell me that I'm amazing and that he loved how sweet and innocent I am (said it was a refreshing change) but now he's chatting up another girl who has a less than flattering reputation and seems like she just wants to give it away. It's hard to see how he would be attracted to me who is the extreme opposite of the new object of his attention.

We never slept together. Neither of us felt ready because he was always really busy and hardly had time for me. He had started distancing himself after a while. I'm a virgin but am not necessarily waiting for marriage. I just wanted to know he cared and wanted him to spend more time with me so I could get comfortable with it.

Are girls who are more aggressive and come on really strong more attractive than sweet, innocent girls?

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    Why do guys prefer trampy girls over quality girls?

    Why would a guy pass up a quality girl for one that is trampy and comes on WAAAAAAY too strong? My ex used to tell me that I'm amazing and that he loved how sweet and innocent I am (said it was a refreshing change) but now he's chatting up another girl who has a less than flattering...

  • 1) They can be intimidated by a really attractive girl. 2) Guys look at more than just looks. I like a girl that likes to laugh, is compassionate/kind, and can really be a friend as much the sexy lady whose clothes I want to rip off. That cute girl might have a really cute personality as well. Work on yourself, be the most awesome version of yourself in all aspects and you'll find great quality guys swooning towards you.

  • The other girls are not 'more attractive', that is not it at all.

    Guys want sex. That is it..pure sex. Not 'making love' and all the other stuff that good girls want. Just pure sex..naked on a bed...and done. That is it.

    Now, the average good girl does not have sex so easily. However the 'low quality' girls will have sex freely. A low quality girl does not need time and does not need to know the guy cares.

    So if all a guy wants is sex....guess the girl he will pick.

  • the "trampy girls" have a reputation of being easy so guys are more interested only because most guys only want sex. He wants innocent because its someone new virgins are the new sports if you get what im trying to say. BTW if a guy truly cares for you he will always make time for you.

  • This isn't so difficult to understand:

    We simply want a girl that's gonna PUT OUT.

    Sweet & innocent?

    No, No, NO! ... I don't wanna f--k Strawberry Shortcake.

    However... some (young) guys have no patience.

    I'm sorry your "ex" was impatient.

  • Guys go for tramps until they are ready to settle down.

    Maybe your boyfriend does not want to be serious right now and just wants to have fun.

  • Sometimes, guys don't always want to lead, or maybe she seems easy.

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