Do pisces always need constant reassurance?
And how much is too much?
My man's away at AIT. And I miss him so so much, I've only seen him once since he left in June. We talk every night, and sometimes he's so tired lol he starts dozing off. I usually send him a text afterwards telling him how I feel...that I love him, and that I'll be here for him, and whatever, what I'm thinking about, what I daydream about, etc. He usually sees it all in the morning lol. But anyway...I feel like I might be too attached. I said I fantasize about (mainly sex but also) our future together...lol I wonder if it's too much. I miss him and I love him so much, but I don't want to smother him either. I suddenly feel like I need to back away and have some "me" time. How much is too much? Am I becoming way too clingy? What do you think?
Update:Pisces/Aquarius cusp, Mercury and Venus and 7th house all in Pisces...moon in Cancer...mars in Sag...?
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What you are doing is great! I need a gf like that, what's your sign?
Yes we need tons of reassurance so keep up the good work.
I'm a Pisces male, and yeah, I need a LOT of reassurance... like a LOT... I don't know why, but I have unfounded fears while in love that the other person will just up and walk away. That and I get all introverted and upset inside (I mask it by saying i'm just tired - tho my bf is starting to see through that excuse) when I think emotions might be slipping.
For a Pisces it's never too much unless it feels fake. We're suckers for romantic stuff and sentimental fools, so if you layer it on thick, and we feel its genuine, we'll feed into that and respond back.
AIT is hard, and he probably appreciates the emotional support.
Instead of sending him texts, try sending him a good old fashioned letter with a bit of your favorite perfume. It takes a little more effort and will help you feel the attachment without feeling like you are smothering him. Then, he can read it at his leisure over and over again.
He will love you forever... after he gets over the faux embarassment in front of his fellow recruits.
Yess they do. i have a pieces boyfriend and wow every time it seems like we're not talking as much he thinks im going t break up with him. haha its cute of him being worried but it gets to be a little too much.