Feel awkward/shy around girls due to penis problem?
I'm 16 and in grade 11. I always feel comfortable around my friends (guys) but when I see them in a group with girls and I join the group, I usually stay quiet.
I can't really have a casual conversation with a girl. When I do I feel like "She's talking to me because she likes me," and I know that's silly. My mind is set like: "If I talk to a girl there's a big chance we'll have a close relationship".
I think the reason for it is because the glans of my penis is verrrry sensitive due to short frenulum keeping the foreskin covering the glans, and would lead to very painful sex. So I try to avoid any kind of chance of having a girlfriend. Weird eh?
Any advice? I can't live like this forever.
Thanks!
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To solve phimosis (tight foreskin):
The penis is basically like 3 balloons filled with blood. See Diagram: http://en.academic.ru/dic.nsf/enwiki/265769o
Masturbating can be damaging to the penis if you apply too much pressure. It damages the spongy tissue structure. Consequently the 3 spongy chambers do not fill out with blood and expand the skin. So what you need to do is allow repair to happen. Masturbate as little as possible. And when you do masturbate don't do it for a long time. Too much masturbation (especially with the wrong technique) can cause micro-tears in the skin, which form scar tissue; scar tissue is less elastic than unscarred tissue.
Also, make sure you are not using a damaging masturbation technique. Just lightly grip the penis and move the foreskin up and down.
Once the inside structure starts to repair this should expand the outside skin and consequently it will be easier to retract over the head.
Tips to increase penis size:
You should do the following from the ages of 14 to 21.
1.Stay lean, thin and muscular with exercise such as running and weights.
2.Eat well.
3.Don't masturbate too much, and when you do, don't damage penis by applying too much pressure
Exercise increases testosterone, the male hormone. Weights are especially good for this.
Being thin means less cholesterol (the fatty stuff that clogs blood vessels), consequently testosterone is more effective.
Being thin also means there is more blood flow to the penis; so when you get spontaneous erections it stretches out the 3 spongy chambers of the penis. See diagram: http://en.academic.ru/dic.nsf/enwiki/265769o
Don't masturbate too much as this depletes energy and effects hormone levels. The penis was not designed for the strong pressure of the hand. Over-masturbation is likely to damage the delicate spongy chambers of the penis. This leads to energy being diverted into repairing the penis rather than growth.
I would avoid spending time on the computer as this resists the temptation to look at porn and masturbate. Also the electro-magnetic radiation from the monitor is not good for you if your head/brain is too close to it.
You should be getting spontaneous erections. Erections are good for expanding out the penis with blood. This happens a lot during sleep.
So be thin, muscular and don't masturbate too much.
Other masculine traits will result from this too:deep voice, angular jaw, pronounced forehead and big space between eyes.
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you have 2 problems that can be fixed
1. hypersensitivity: i read the more you touch the head (like when you WASH AND DRY the head daily and masturbate) rub the head and man up until eventually you get used to it
2. frenulum breve (short frenulum): you need to stretch that, masturbate in the shower and pull back more and more gradually everyday and with time it should loosen, be patient (or get the frenulum snipped) and remember to wash and dry the head well daily
Just because you go out with girls and date them doesnt mean youll have sex. Despite what most people say, the majority of teens actually are not having sex.
Relax, and just enjoy the company of girls. You'll be fine.
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See a doctor for exercises to loosen your "short frenulum"..