I'm numb to sex - psychological issue or physical?
This is really awkward. I hate these type of things but I guess I'll have to ask sometime.
Once upon a time I had quite a high sex drive, the slightest thing would turn me on and orgasms were epic. Then last year I had to do a research project on the Human Trafficking and a whole bunch of other stuff. I ended up seeing a video of a girl who was forced into the sex industry and saw what she had been forced to do. The horror of it made me cold and I started throwing up. I've been unable to get sexually aroused since then. This all happened around the same time 3 people I loved past away so last year was pretty stressful. To top it all off I decided (in my over the top emotional frenzy *bleugh* *rolls eyes*) to lose my virginity to a complete idiot at some idiotic rock concert. Don't judge - last year was pretty crappy and I was basically a zombie.
The reality hit me later on though and it hit me hard. Point is I am now in a very happy relationship with someone who cares and listens and takes his time to make me happy (in a general "take to the park and have a picnic with rose petals" type of way) and when we make love I feel comfortable and safe and even though it feels nice (kinda like a back massage would) i don't feel that sexual thrill. I feel blocked. I feel beautiful when i'm with him but I don't orgasm or even feel close to it. Why? Am I mucked up? I've got a doctors appointment in 2 weeks to check me out but has anyone else got an opinion for me? Am I psychologically mucked?
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To me it sounds more psychological than physical. Maybe you could see a psychologist about it for a little while? If therapy doesn't help after a while, you could switch to a psychiatrist and possibly get medication to bring your sex drive back.
I'd say go to your appointment and ask your doctor what they think would be best for you.
Good luck
See a therapist, your blocking your own dilemma in your mind
you have alot in your mind and should think about taking sex enhancers