How do I impress my Ex Boyfriends family?
Pretty soon I will be going round to my ex boyfirends house to meet his dad, sister and family friends. Me and my ex are still really close and I do want to get back with him, so it is pretty vital that I make a really good impression to him and also to the people I will be meeting. His dad knows quite alot about our previous relationship and this is worrying. I'v met his sister alot and she has mixed thoughts on me according to my ex, as again, she knows alot.
I just need to know what to wear, how to have my hair and how to act so that I can impress them, and also impress my ex
Thankyou!
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Dress nice like causal. Blue jeans and a nice shirts with some flats or tennis shoes. Just look beautiful. Straighten ur hair! U look beautiful no matter what!
I am confused as to why you are meeting his parents for the first time - AFTER you've split up.
Why did you never get introduced when you were together? It's all a little backwards.
If you AND your ex both want to get back together, then that should be yours and his decision. His family has nothing to do with it.
If there is indication from him that he wants to get back together, then great - otherwise, it's important not to get ahead of yourself and to remember that you broke up for a reason. If you're going to make a go of it, then it would be a good idea to re-build your relationship first, before immediately introducing yourself to his family before it's even official. Why rush it when you aren't even sure where you stand? You both need to communicate and decide what it is you both want.
If there is no indication from him, or he makes it clear that he doesn't want to get back together, then you are better off cutting contact completely. I can understand that you are close and you don't want to do this, but you can't get over someone when you are still in touch with them. It's not fair on either of you.
I would advise you to have a heart to heart with him - find out if there's any hope of getting back together. If there is - give yourselves time to develop your new relationship before meeting the folks. If there isn't any hope - cut your ties and move on.