why do parents?

think that once you become a teen you want to go into rebelion mode? I try to prove it wrong by doing everything I do at the best I can and then after leaving something out or having a messy room I get in so much trouble do they think I am trying to be a rebel

( have tryed to talk about it today did not work)

Update:

my big brother was a rebel

Comments

  • Parenting is tough and they make mistakes.

    Go on showing how mature and sensible you are and hope they get the message. So often it seems parents get dictatorial when they see their little ones growing up.

    It's hard for some people to let go of the control that they had over the lives of their small children and to realise that now their job has changed and that their role now is to now take more of a back seat.

    You sound a very thoughtful youngster and as if you are ahead in this, so have a little patience with them. If you go on showing this good attitude maybe they'll realise how lucky they are that you're not a rebel.

  • my parents were the same way, i dont know why. i think i was the perfect teen. i did very good in school, helped out at home with chores and with my bro and sis, went to church, never went to parties or did drugs, i got a job at 16 so i could buy my own car, etc. and yet my parents still treated me like i was the worst child ever and i could never understand it. it made it hard to have pride in myself for being an all around good kid, because i wanted to and not because i was scared of them or something.

  • cuz they r old folks wit no lives

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