Major Problem! HELP?
On Friday I went to see a play at my school. And it was really good but the thing is that my ex bf was in it. When he was on stage I could not stop watching him and I kinda got the feeling that he was watching me. I still like him even thought he was the one who broke up with me and really hurt me. But I still want to give us another try and when I thold him that he say that he was not he one for me and that we are too different. I told him that I did not care and that we will never know if we belong together if we don't try. I am not really looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with but I do want to try again with him. What should I do? Since we broke up he talks to me when I start talking to him but he will ignore me if I am not the one to start talking to him. So what should I do about him?
Update:I now know another reason why my ex broke up with me. It was because of another girl. I so don't want him back now but somewhere inside of me I guess I still do.
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There's always going to be a part of you that wishes things between you two would have been different and that you two were still going out. But you need to move on. There's plenty of guys out there, you just need to have faith that you'll find the right one.
I don't wanna be mean but please leave him alone since he seems tired and "enough" about you.
Don't give him too much attention. Chasing him will just make him feel superior than you thus instead of giving attention to you back, he backs off and say "she's not worth it".
It's best if you just go with you life, maybe get a new boyfriend or just show him that you're interested in another guy, see how he react, if he seems like don't care, you know that's the end of you and him.
he told you how he feels. you need to move on. let him go. my first time being broken up with i thought the same thing. he still may care about me right? of course he cared! we were friends. but it wasn't going to happen again. it's a good thing it didn't. i've moved on and so has he. trust me, you'll get through this. everyone does. it's a break-up. it's over. there's not going to be a another chance and he has made that very clear.
He's probably a good actor. Acting is supposed to make you feel like they're talking to you. I would move on because he obviously doesn't want to be with you. When you find the right person you won't have to go through all this to be with him.
Banging your head against a brick wall. He sounds like he is not interested. Get someone else quickly to take your mind off him.
I think you should just ignore him the way he is ignoring you. Maybe your coming on too strong & it's freaking him out.
Ignore him
there's a reason he's an ex boyfriend. never go back always move forward.
you can't force him to get back in a relationship with you. this will only push him further away. just let him go, and if he comes back to you on his own, then things will take its course.
I don't think that he is that interested since he will ignore you if you don't talk to him first.