Family Emergency(no negative coments please)?
I recently moved in with my Dad because of some problems at my Mom's. My Mom was never around when I needed her so I began some really bad habbits(cutting my wrists,drinking etc.)The last day I was there my step-dad hit me and my Mom steped in at the last minuite. Mom said I hit my Dresser but it was a good 4 feet away(as I have stated before, Mom missed the whole episode). When I went to talk to my therapist about it she did'nt want to hear it. Mom got there before hand and told her I hit the dresser. Now the theripst thinks I need medication and I'm a lyer. I stoped my bad habbits after living with my Dad but when I went to visit,they had gotton a pool,new computer and Direct tv.They said they would never get that stuff, but I think somthing fishy is happening.What do you think? No negative comments please !
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wow hun. first off what the hell was the therapist doing listening to your mother? its supposed to be about you and they shoulda told her they can not under law discuss anyhtink bout your sessions.I suggest talking to their boss etc about this.
I also think you should go to the police about what your stepdad did to you. will your dad stand by you?
Lonnie, it sounds like your step dad knows what he did and he is trying to buy your mom.
Don't hurt yourself like that for attention. What you are getting is not the attention you want or deserve.
Seek someone else whom you can trust. sometimes, sweetie, our parents can only help us with so much. You cannot rely on them for everything; sometimes you cannot even rely on them for the basic things.
Hang out with positive friends and ask to see a new therapist. This one is biased. don't be overly dramatic when you don't need to be--that may hurt your believability. be calm and logical if you can...i know, it's hard when you're going through so much.
If your mom knows he is hitting you and she is in denial, well, you kind of just have to chalk it up to her dysfunctionality. We all have them to an extent.
Don't live there though, if you can help it. It's just not a safe place for you dear.
Good luck and be safe and remember that there are people who can help you at church, school, friends and friend's parents when your own parents cant.
If things are OK where your at now don't worry about whats going on in their life. Communicate but don't try to figure things out and worry. Talk with your Dad and do things that you like to do.
Im sorry..you have 2 inform an authority figure who is gonna listen...i hope everything works out...dnt worry u will get through it..but make sure u dnt get back to those bad habits
if i were you i would cut all ties with them and then become famous for something. then, when they go broke and become trailer trash and come to you for money, have your butlers or bodygaurds remove them from the premises. lol.
I don't understand your question. Are you asking if they bought the pool and computer for you?